If someone treats you badly at some point, remember that it’s not your responsibility, are it the people who are wrong, the ones who have done something wrong?Inside. No, and you. Neither guilt nor responsibility belongs to you.
Nothing, absolutely nothing, justifies an act of abuse, a bad gesture, a bad word, but unfortunately we tend to value the bad words and pejorative gestures of others.
- When we pay attention to these behaviors.
- People who treat us badly can take pride in how they are.
- Even believing that the same is true and that their bad words reflect reality.
However, this is far from reality, as its actions reflect its darkness and its own internal conflicts.
Words seeking to hurt, judgments, unsolicited opinions, and criticisms directed directly at us should not receive any credit.
Because it doesn’t offend the one he wants, it offends the one who can. If we pay attention to people who treat us badly, we will give them a chance to hurt us now and after.
As we often hear, “What does John of Peter say much more about John than Peter?”So before you give importance to these ‘advice’, ‘opinions’, criticism?That they do not bring kindness, usefulness or truth, we must think of the intentions of the person before us.
This discomfort that they generate to us is not in vain for us, because we can make sense of everything, after all, some people come into our lives to teach us not to be like them.
Because mutual respect and good deeds are essential values to live healthy, feel full and at peace with oneself. In their own actions, people who treat others are hardly punished.
Whether visible or not, the negative lives in your mind and therefore you will not be able to experience the feeling of satisfaction and fullness felt by people who respect others.
The best way to protect yourself from those who mistreat you is not to admit this kind of treatment, the emotional bonds are precious and we have to take care of ourselves, so it is important to ignore you and stay away from the people who harm us. Estimated.
If they sow doubts, concerns and lies, it is not advisable to be close to these people, because eventually they will poison us, people who try to deceive us see nothing but their own interests at the moment, so they will continue to do so. if we can’t stop them.
In that sense, we should not give importance to what these people are doing, what needs to be done is to pay attention to what we can learn from what they have done, in this way it will help us generate opportunities for growth and work on our self-esteem and inner strength.
Betrayal, coldness and pride are sharp daggers that, when used, hurt a lot, but the most painful thing is to really know these people who have been around us for so long.
You end up discovering the true side of some people when they actually show up, when they no longer need you and reflect their true interests.
Recognizing that there are people who treat us badly, we can analyze the situation and anticipate their reactions and intentions, so our shield will be made up of the ability to ignore and anticipate the bad words or actions of these people.
This grieving process, born of the disappointment of relationships, will help us to think better about our priorities and to seek new centers in which to place our trust. A task that is not easy, but certainly necessary.