If you care about me, tell me with your eyes, show me reciprocity and convince me that our love is complicit and true love, because being ignored day by day by the person you love most throws us into a state of painful uncertainty.
Conscious, mature and authentic love needs commitment. People connect with the people they love: with their children, with their friends, and with their partner, these bonds are based on emotional security and stability, which should not change every day, or depend on mood or other priorities.
- It must be made clear that it is not asking for security in our relationships that we demonstrate an unreasonable need for control or excessive attachment.
- The need for security in appointments does not imply control or that they must give us constant displays of affection every second.
Actually, the question is simpler: if you care about me, show me your world and let me be a part of it.
We know that sometimes it is not so simple: there are those who do not know, do not want or even cannot face reciprocity, emotional intelligence must be formed and cultivated from emotional complicity, offering a serene love. to the other person and not to a sea of many waves, full of oscillations.
No one can live forever in uncertainty. We need stability to sustain ourselves and something to believe in as a stable basis for smooth progress, knowing that every effort, every gesture and every projected dream is worth it.
When I feel like you don’t care anymore, my world falls apart and everything slides into the field of misunderstanding and despair. In these moments, my doubts multiply. I don’t want this: if you love me, you always have to show it, not every other day.
We must also keep in mind that each person understands and lives love in different ways, yet both sides of a relationship must strike a balance in which there is harmony, in which neither party feels aggrieved.
We also know that these small emotional conflicts are the situations that in some cases trigger crises in relationships:
That’s when we need to talk and express our emotional needs aloud. Don’t be afraid to say aloud, “I feel, I see, I need, I hope you. “
Another aspect that we must take into account when we go through times of crisis, moments when the painful feeling of not feeling loved appears, is that routine, in some cases, makes us think that we should not fight for love. takes it for granted.
Love should never be dominated by indifference, otherwise it will lose its value, relationships are re-eded every day and feed on every gesture and every little detail.
Let us understand that love, in essence, never ceases to require effort. The small sacrifices that we usually make unconsciously at the beginning of a relationship, since the strength of love is so great, must always continue. Over time, inertia takes over and there is a temptation to set aside complacency, giving only the relationship what is easier. Thought: