If you don’t like your projects, if your dreams don’t fit into someone else’s mold, do it alone, someone will find it. Because sometimes you have to end up with a bad story to allow a new destination to find us, think that the important thing is to move forward being the protagonists of our own journey.
Carl Gustav Jung said our vision will always be much clearer if instead of looking out, we start looking at our hearts. Because those who look “dream” but those who frequent the interior “wake up”. Another thing we also know is that waking up is sometimes painful: it means giving up a lot of things we have now.
- We often forget that life is really a journey.
- A dynamic path where permanence is false.
- Where the present remains ephemeral.
- A reality that generates uncertainty and against which we try to gain security.
- Often at any cost.
Sometimes we focus on the permanence of these barren fields, an arid land where weeds grow and we cling simply because we feel safe, connected to the roots of something or someone who offers us what we call love, respect or happiness.
We are afraid to move on – in solitude when we need someone else, we fear that melancholy will embrace us, that failure will receive us, and that the realities found do not align with the expectations we create. But you always have to keep something in mind: does it also move forward?Is it walking down the path of detachment carrying our backpack with other plans and winds that, sooner or later, will begin to appear on the horizon?
There is an ancient English proverb that says “who has never been wrong has never dared to live. “This is something that happens quite often. There are those who choose to contract in the inertia of routines so as not to take risks, because the unknown will always be better than the good to know.
Because it is more appropriate to act as others expect than to surprise being the black sheep, adapt to the expectations of others and turn on the autopilot guarantees us that sense of safety A free place at the forefront of cinema where no risk is taken, where there are no uninsired consequences.
Leaving the comfort zone means, in fact, going through the wall of fear first, and we’re not all prepared for that, but why not?Fiona Lee, PhD in Social Psychology at the University of Michigan, concluded with an interesting work. that people are primarily afraid of failure.
We all have great and interesting projects in mind that we almost never put into practice. We are afraid, the opinions of others disturb us and we fear above all failure. We tell ourselves that “our train is gone” as we go out to look in the reflection of a window. We do this by wondering what we would have become if we had taken this step. If we had implemented this plan.
It’s not easy. In fact, thanks to Dr. Lee’s studies, some very interesting aspects have been highlighted, companies based on product innovation, for example, take many accounts that people do not like changes, at least not abrupt changes. A change is the breakdown of the established and therefore implies fear, mistrust and failure.
Our brain doesn’t like change either. Their job is to ensure our survival, so it whispers to us that it is better not to leave your comfort zone, however, there are times when you have to do it, we must step forward and cross the line of fear.
If no one likes your plans, don’t change them. Do not let the square spirits make you fall into these vicious circles based on misfortune, after all, and in a way, we all become Ulysses lost in the sea of life, eager to find us, dreaming of reaching an Ithaca where we embrace. calm, joy and realization of our projects.
It’s time to make changes and shape your dreams, here’s how you can do it.
We are convinced that until this moment in your life you have already postponed a multitude of projects, so much so that you do not even remember everyone, but remember: whoever postpones their goals, desires or dreams out of fear does not. who, pants? Others’ shoes lack feet to walk. Anyone who offers air for others to breathe forgets that they too have to breathe.
Change direction, cross the line for fear of failure
Be aware and make your self-esteem your best weapon. Listen to your intuition, this wise voice, this aroma of your essences that acts as your best vital compass. It’s never too late to shape your dreams, your projects. Even if there are, sometimes there’s no choice but to put them into practice without anyone’s company.