If you love me, prove it, not in words, but with attitudes. These beautiful terms are of no use to me and come out of your mouth to the delight of my ears. Don’t fool me, don’t confuse me. If you really love me, prove it with stocks.
In the world of relationships, or rather, the illusions of relationships, disappointments and disappointments are becoming more frequent, a problem that is exacerbated by the speed with which we start our relationships, without waiting for the other person to show who they really are. In this way we form a bad image, but over time the person will show his true face.
- We must not forget that in the first stage of the relationship passion blinds us.
- We are so deceived by the desire that this person is part of our lives that we forget to see everything from another angle.
- Unintentionally and unintentionally we observe the reality that we want.
- Not the one that really is.
It seems that in those moments there is nothing to prove, everything is beautiful, there is need to meet and spend time together, the two want to get to know each other better and this is removed from the middle, but it also results in a smoke bomb if the couple has legs in the air for a long time.
It is also true that in those early moments of a relationship people show a more pleasant side, we do not mean that they lie, but that they may be decorating their way a little, this person so attentive and concerned about their well-being. being, therefore, no longer acts like this. Or wasn’t she the way you thought she was?
The truth is, none of them will be wrong about their assumptions. For your part, you may have created unrealistic illusions and expectations about who you wanted to share your life with. Your partner may have used certain techniques to get your attention that aren’t already needed.
We must not forget that when we meet someone our goal is to be attentive to us, if everything generates discomfort from the beginning it will be impossible to start a relationship, for all this over time it is not that people change, is that they no longer have any motivation to manifest themselves and give their best to be able to fall in love again.
This relaxation that comes to us after being able to be with the person we wanted means that over the years we do not put all our energy into continuing to fall in love every day, expressions of affection become less frequent and words of affection do not make sense. Everything fell into the routine.
But love manifests itself in actions and not in empty words, that touch of hands, a sincere kiss for no reason, can indicate to the members of a relationship that love and desire are always alive between them, and keep in mind that this is all. for both of us.
If over the years you are disappointed that your partner has changed, think about it and try to see the situation from a different perspective, maybe you formed an image of it that was not real, each relationship changes over time. Routine, sharing moments together, problems, everything influences.
For all this, there is a very peaceful solution: communication. It is necessary to talk about this situation, to see if they have moved away from each other, what happened so as not to show affection as before. Sometimes it’s embarrassing to mention this issue, perhaps because it’s taking too long to do so. However, it is very necessary.
It is also important that you have the right perspective of your relationship so that you can see in another way how you have evolved within it, sometimes we do not realize that this person disappoints us because now he does not respect us, abuses us. psychologically treats us with indifference. All this happens because a past full of illusions is still alive in our minds.
It is normal that over the years relationships and people change, so it is necessary to talk about the relationship and try to regain what made us fall in love with the person who is with us today. Why not relax, because nothing is safe, and if one day we try so hard, why not keep doing it for the rest of our lives?
Never forget: if you love me, prove it, but with words based on sincere and real actions.