If you love your whole being, if you put everything in a relationship, you do not deserve to be half loved, nor sometimes loved, with the crumbs that remain, you deserve to be loved for a whole and well-built place, not a place in ruins and full of cracks that foreshadows an imminent fall (for those who wish to transit through this place) and without hope of change.
There are people who are content with little, struggle between being free or maintaining a relationship that does not give them the peace they deserve for fear of being alone, in this case, is it better, without company ?, than alone. Otherwise, it would be a big mistake, because the person will hardly have the opportunity to learn to love himself.
- Then we will sell each other in the first person.
- Taking the courage of our love.
- Somehow we’ll leave you to the elements.
- Without taking care of you or protecting you.
- “Turn around.
- My love.
- I won’t take care of you.
- Am I waiting for someone from outside to take care of you.
- Because I’m not willing to do it?.
When it’s the internal dialogue we have with our self-esteem, we come across dangerous ground, first of all because we don’t respect each other enough to get away from what doesn’t make us happy. always trust each other to be good?How am I going to pretend to be alone when the other one’s gone?
This is where masochistic behaviors appear. Do what you want, treat me however you want because I, even if it hurts (because it hurts), I’m going to stay there, “Fight?”Because of our relationship. When in reality there is not ‘ours’, but a ‘yours’.
All so you don’t lose the other one. I will do whatever it takes to keep the other one from leaving, I will blame myself for your attitudes, I will be responsible for everything that happens in the relationship, in this way I guarantee that my heart will not sail alone in this storm It is always in that little inhospit boat. At least you’re protected there, and there’s no risk of living.
Are these risks? That the longer we take on, the more space they will create in our minds and the more fears they will generate. Fear of loneliness leads us to commit the greatest crimes against our own hearts. We’ve hurt him, left him in the hands of strangers who love us with what’s left of him.
Our heart is like a newborn. He just wants to be with his mother, be cared for and fed by her. Our hearts love us first, and as they mature, they can share that love with someone else. But in the meantime, we cuidarnos. de him, love him, and guarantee him a safe place where he can grow and learn.
When you love your whole being, you love with the responsibility that this entails, you are brave. Because loving someone is not a safe bet. We often love someone without the guarantee that it will work. We’re taking a risk. We know there’s a risk.
But it is better to take this risk with a well-kept and protected heart than with a gnawed heart full of holes. Holes we want to fill with the other person? And that’s where misfortune begins. When my heart can only survive if it’s with the other person.
Sharing life with those we love is a wonderful thing, but we must learn to take care of ourselves from the depths of our being, rather than leaving our inexperienced and fragile love in someone else’s hands. This is a first step we all take. We need to love each other in a healthy way.