We live in a world that requires us to be competitive, where being great is almost an obligation to which we are attracted to giving our best and getting the best results, this leads many people to step on others so that they can be the best. better and reach the first desired position.
But stepping on others is not legal and has consequences. As Lily Tomlin rightly said: “The problem with ascension in stepping on others is that even if you do, your stature doesn’t increase. No matter how hard you try, your success will only be apparent.
- People by your side may be the best drivers to help you achieve your goals.
- If you step on them to achieve your goals.
- You miss the opportunity to learn from them.
- But maybe you don’t care.
- Maybe all you want to do is be the first.
- In front of everyone.
- No matter the price.
- So.
- You have to ask yourself.
- “For what?.
Sometimes we don’t know why we want to be better than others, we just have to draw attention to inflate our egos and gain looks of envy, but it doesn’t fill you up, you’ll feel empty even if you reach the goal. Because because of your attitude you won’t come with it, you’ll come alone.
Successes achieved alone and by the simple desire to feel better than others are not encouraged to go further. Once you understand, what’s left of you? You will feel alone, many will hate you and many will ignore you, because being the best, running to be the first will not always make you happy, but you will feel terribly empty.
Think also about the foul play you created to get to where you are, you’ve played the cards of lying, dishonesty, loss of friends and disappointment from a lot of people, you can be on top, but you’re not entirely satisfied because the way you do things wasn’t right.
So, if it were possible to go back, you’d better correct your behavior by standing next to other people, so you could learn from them, turn them into your adventure partners, and thus participate in theirs as well. Feeling that I’d overwhelm you when you reached the finish line would be much more pleasurable than what you’re feeling now. The smiles others would give would be sincere, selfless with bitterness and disappointment.
Now you know it doesn’t have to be big at all costs: it won’t be worth it until the end. It doesn’t stop thinking about you and your own advantage, but your attitude should never be directed toward others. You may have done that once without realizing it. Here are some ways to walk on others:
Here are some situations you may have experienced before. It’s a dirty way of playing, maybe because there’s no real appreciation for the people around you or just because you’re so focused on the goal that you don’t all care anymore.
Sometimes this obsession with approaching others responds to a lack of self-esteem and safety, sitting in a place where the fear of someone defeating them is born, you think you won’t be able to achieve your goal just by playing, because you know there will always be better people than you.
What you don’t know is that once you’re up and you’re alone, everything you’ve accomplished collapses, because it’s very difficult to maintain what hasn’t been achieved in the best way. you start to fall, you’ll find everyone you’ve stepped on.
Each of us has its own goals and we must achieve them without anyone else being affected, it is true that in certain circumstances we all fight for the same goal, and then the best usually win, but in this case nothing bad will happen if someone reaches the top. If you’ve done well, you’ve learned and know there are other possibilities. You don’t have to be great at all costs.