Sometimes we hesitate to write an ending to what literally “bitters our lives. “Often, these behaviors, relationships, or thought patterns respond to a need: avoid immediate discomfort. We avoid facing reality by taking refuge in pain, which becomes therapeutic because it is banal.
What happens is that this one evasion of pain, without looking further, sometimes leads us to a life catastrophe, we prolong relations with people who humiliate us for little money or we get stuck in habits that do not bring us closer to what we want in the long run, sometimes we have to change, sometimes we just have to stop , and in other cases, you have to do both.
- We need to be aware of what aspects of our lives no longer favor or compensate us.
- That all they do is give us bad times to collect.
- To decide if we have reached a point of no return in a relationship.
- The following Points of Thought will be very useful:.
The price of not ending is high: destroy your self-esteem. Sometimes it’s inevitable that they’ll hurt us and let us down. This is out of your control, but how you react to this damage and the aggressor will make a difference. you continue to give an opportunity or justify behavior that is no longer justified, will destroy your self-esteem. Suppose you’ve lost control, not only of what they do to you, but also of what you constantly do to yourself.
They can be toxic habits or multi-year relationships that you let consummate you, that constantly spoil your emotional well-being and your dreams, you can continue in this dynamic because you find yourself unable to live in a way that does not imply this. eternal discomfort.
The time has come to be healthily selfish. Stop what hurts you, focus on the healthy and renew your life scenario?Don’t agree to keep boycotting your dignity. The price of not finishing it is that one day you will have to do it in an even more traumatic way, with many more losses and having wasted even more time.
If we do not put an end to what constantly erodes our inner peace, we will never find rest in our lives. Put an end to what should have ended shortly after you started. If you don’t, expect irreversible emotional wear and tear that even you do. no one deserves it.
? I’ve changed a lot
? Many?
? Radically.
I’ve never had such a red heart
It’s good that life has several circles. But mine, my life, has gone around, and not quite missing the most important thing.
I wrote your name inside so many times. And here, now, I can’t close anything. I’m alone.
I’ll stay here as long as it takes. I hope for the coincidence of my life, the greatest of all, and that I have lived them of all kinds. Yes, I could bring my life closer together by joining matches, was the first and most important was the worst?
-Lovers of the Arctic Circle-
It is important to give yourself the necessary permissions to start over without fear or guilt, in life everything changes and changes, and it is the way we can detect these changes that makes the difference between people who are constantly renewed and those who end up living forever in their past tragedies.
You may have many stories on your way, but staying longer than necessary spoils the healthy decision to follow different paths. To always try to repeat the same situations that cause you discomfort is not just masochism, it is to cede power over you to someone or something that should never have you.