Life can take a lot of turns, and it does. Things aren’t always as we’d like, unfortunately. Don’t you?What’s a problem in fact?Do we really have as many problems as we think, or do we just complicate our lives thinking about what we think we’re missing?After all, if you think you have a problem, you’ll have a problem.
In fact, it is our attitude that determines whether we really have a problem and its magnitude, remember that it is our own analysis of the facts that really makes us turn circumstances into problems, it is also our analysis that turns a challenge into a threat.
- In this sense.
- Accepting circumstances allows us to take advantage of them to learn and grow.
- Acceptance is a way to solve adverse situations.
- To adapt and renew.
- When there is no other possibility of intervention or when choosing another intervention.
- The option requires paying a very high price.
Whether you like it or not, whether you like it or not, whether you are prepared or not, adversity crosses your path, then many questions will arise, but the most important of all is what you are going to do, how are you going to deal with it in the future, that is, do you think you have a problem in the face of adversity or will you turn the new circumstance into an opportunity to learn and grow?
Initial pain and anxiety are normal and natural, it’s even healthy to give pain time to do your job, resisting is just one way to prolong agony. Pain is a natural sensation that needs to be replaced. When the emotional pain passes, the new situation will really face off.
Despite the complications that life can bring us, adversity can become a great opportunity to get to know us better, to value what we have, to value ourselves, the approach does not change what has already happened, it does not give us a solution, but it will give us the opportunity to discover it. An already wonderful activity in itself.
“Adversity has the gift of awakening talents that, in prosperity, would have fallen asleep. “- Horatio-
Learning to adapt to new circumstances, however unfavorable, is the secret to living a full and happy life. It sounds difficult, but it’s possible. However, adaptation alone is not enough: you must also be able to accept all that comes, that acceptance is at all times the beginning of change, either within our own interior or in our environment.
Adapting doesn’t mean overcoming adversity, but it does help you gain some control, control over yourself. In the end, said Bernabé Tierno, everything can be faced, but not everything can be won. Only acceptance will allow us to make a real adaptation and drink the juice until the last second of our life.
“The life of each person, and in particular ours, must be a life of constant acceptance, adaptation and renewal” – Bernabé Tierno-
Blessed are those who learn to endure what cannot change, said Friedrich Schiller. Certainly, no matter how hard the change is, no matter the adversity, learning to handle it, accepting it and adapting to the new circumstance, in many chaos, is the only thing to opt for the rest of the alternatives, we must pay a price that we cannot bear at this time, or there are simply no alternatives.
As we learn to accept change and adapt to new circumstances, we will face other changes, because life is like this: a pure dynamic. In this chaos, our first reaction may be to flee or fight, which are the natural survival instincts that win. great strength as motivators of our actions when we feel threatened.
But when we are able to mentally adapt to a situation, no matter how difficult it is, we can find ways to adapt to the new situation. One person who can accept change and adapt to their new situation is one who can focus their mind on new directions and make decisions based on their new reality and new goals.
You have a real problem if you let yourself be dominated by adversity, if you let yourself be invaded by the grief of what you have lost or what you can no longer do, you will have turned adversity into a real problem, a heavy piece. that won’t let you go.
A complicated reality does not have to become an exhausting and disappointing situation, it does not have to end dreams and hopes, with courage and optimism it is possible to find and take advantage of the new opportunities that are presented to us all. Our limits are not within our limits. There is still a long way to go, even if our support is left behind.
Being at the bottom of the well, when there are difficulties, can be a temptation, it’s the easiest way. You may regret a loss, failure, or illness, but don’t make it your home, there are still many opportunities to live a full life, yet to achieve it, you must stop believing that you have a problem, accept the change it has had. happened and make it the starting point to adapt to the new circumstances.
“Whoever has a reason to live can bear it either way. –Friedrich Nietzsche–