Living is not just existing and meeting our basic needs. Does living mean enjoying, crying, loving, having a purpose in life?It is proven that human beings need activity, but above all, that they need a goal important enough to be. it’s worth being part of this mysterious universe.
How often do we feel lost simply because we don’t know what we want to do with our lives?
- Not having a clear goal can cause you to lose interest in almost everything.
- To the point that life doesn’t seem to make sense.
- That’s where the real problem arises.
- Life really makes sense that we want to give it.
- But for that we have to move in favor of our own goals.
Getting lost not knowing why you want to live is a path with one companion: sadness, a sadness that is able to strip us of the forces necessary to undertake new actions, new paths.
Each of us has a meaning in life. For some it is to enjoy the job well done, for others it is children or family, and for others it can help others.
In any case, the important thing is that it is clear and, once defined, that we start acting for this, we do not need to know that something moves me inside and so I have a great interest, if I do not assume. the steps I need to accomplish things that have to do with my goal.
Between interest and success there has to be action, we can achieve almost everything we have planned, but knowing that nothing falls from the sky.
To find your purpose in life, ask yourself if what you’re doing brings you closer to where you’d like to be in a few years, that is, if you want to keep what you have today in five years. Also take a look at the past, especially in your childhood, and remember what you loved at the time.
Children always try to do what they really like, far beyond their expectations or obligations, until society often steals their own dreams.
You must also have a touch of realism. If this dream that we had in the past can no longer be fulfilled, it will be good that we live in mourning and finally adapt to the situation, in addition to looking for other alternatives that also allow us to live meaningfully.
The key is to rejoice in what we have achieved and, in turn, it allows us to overcome ourselves, discover our experiences and gain confidence and self-esteem, so even if the will is not on our side, we must set foot in front of each other, often ignoring what we were feeling at the time.
As we have said, the fundamental key to being able to leave this world with the feeling of having lived life properly is to have a why and a why.
People suffering from depression often wonder why they are in this world.
They do not have the meaning that we have talked about throughout this article, perhaps because they have not yet found it, or perhaps because, although it is clear, sadness itself prevents them from getting up and acting, negative thoughts and irrational beliefs also play an important role in this regard. It is very difficult to get up and take the first step if you only see the darkness.
Thoughts determine our emotions and, in turn, how we behave, so they must be questioned and, as the case may be, exchanged for the most rational.
While thoughts are largely responsible for our actions, they can also change the way we interpret the world.
That is why it is so important to ignore, in some cases, the disturbing emotion, accept it or leave it there, as we follow our path, with repetition, with great willpower, thoughts will finally begin to change, and what seemed dark will begin to take colors in our eyes.