Many of us have heard the phrase “money doesn’t make you happy, but I’d rather cry in a Ferrari. “It sounds like a nice, ironic phrase, and it really is, but the deep interpretation we make of it isn’t so much. These ideas are inherited from a savage capitalism, which sometimes makes us hate our lives, makes us feel losing. A lot of people think I’d be happy if they missed that something.
It is said that with money the punishments are less terrible, however, they are the same, only decorated with a more beautiful package for others, not so much for you, on the one hand it is true that a job and an average economic level bring us some well-being. However, it is no less true that money cannot buy mental health; on the contrary, in some cases it only aggravates some problems and fills some gaps incorrectly.
- Because if you’re not satisfied with what you have.
- You won’t be satisfied with what you’re missing or what you think you’re missing.
- Because living in this state is not a healthy ambition.
- But a state of turmoil that makes you lose unique moments in life.
Unemployment rates in many countries today have psychological consequences in the short, medium and long term, but leaving aside the social and economic question, should we look at the factors that explain the constant need, so present in Western society, to renew material desires?.
Think of someone who hopes to have enough money to spend a few days on the beach with their family or who hopes to find a job or job to meet friends and celebrate at a party. Time? He was probably frozen and subordinate to a future act, to this possibility, pressing the hands of the clock to make it.
So, if you expect something external to end with that sense of inner emptiness, you’re actually wasting your time not coming back. It may be that when this great news comes, if ever, your mind is exhausted in the path of waiting.
No one said that we did not need aspirations, but they could not definitively disown the reality before us, we must not forget that sometimes facing it requires a lot of courage, extreme tolerance for frustration and uncertainty. comfortable to go anywhere knowing that everything you leave behind is in order, but life is not just a matter of security or having everything tied up, it is also the ability to live at risk.
You have to dare to harness your energy without having to have an idyllic deadline to appear. He thinks that by exploring what we already have, we will find new sources to supply us. Life is made up of stages and all have a special charm that is often only appreciated when viewed in retrospect.
To be happy with what you have is not to be conformist. Knowing how to enjoy the positive things in your life is not a subsidiary and defeatist mindset. To know how to recognize beauty in the people and in the everyday situations that surround it is to learn that we are who we are for the peace we have and transmit, even if sometimes we have empty pockets. To be happy with what you have is to aspire to improve yourself as a person, not as an object.
Learning not to lose control or judgment because of a bad economic situation is not a matter that can be done with banks, you acquire this with lessons, you perceive it with your eyes, you struggle with the resources of the intellect and you accept it from the heart. The most precious thing in this life is inner peace, and it also requires going through periods of total uncertainty. It’s not something you get with a check. It’s a long and difficult emotional job.
It is true that everyone wants to achieve what they think is necessary to be happier, but the truth is that if that desire takes away all the passion of the present, more than a desire, it is a harmful self-imposition.
Our dreams must sink us, must our goals do this?It is not a meaningless coming and going, but a commitment to serious work or a responsibility to achieve what makes us work, but at the same time, vibrate. what you have is a commitment to the present that will be reflected in your future.