We all have emotional wounds, but none are equal to another, some are successfully overcome, while others need a little more time to heal, these wounds occur in several ways: for treason, abandonment, injustice, humiliation, etc.
When we try to disguise a physical wound it becomes infected and sooner or later it bleeds again, however, if we wash it and make the right bandages it will bother us, but it will heal faster, the same goes for emotional wounds so ignoring an injury is not the best option.
“Injuries don’t mean you’ve lost, but you worry enough to fight. “
-Anonymous-
“Will time heal your wounds? It is a lie that we are always told, that time does not cure anything if we do not apply the necessary care first. Of course, time is an ally, as long as we apply the dressings until it heals.
How do I know if the wound is healed? When you no longer need to fight, when everything is said and resolved, when there is no more grudges, your wound will heal, you will notice that when this happens, it is a door that closes.
Believing that time will heal all your wounds is not the best solution, we all have an example in our life experiences: at some point we try to ignore pain for fear of dealing with it or because we think it’s not important. ignoring a situation can prolong suffering and make healing difficult.
“I learned a long time ago that to heal my wounds you have to have the courage to face them. “
-Paulo Coelho-
You can let time pass and ignore this wound so you don’t see it bleed, but you know you’re bleeding and you need a bandage, it’s a mistake to try to disguise it in some way, believing that time will do its part.
Distraction has the same effect as time, distracts us when we try to cover up or ignore what makes us suffer, but what happens when you’re alone?What happens when you don’t have anything to distract you?
Distraction only stuns us, while in our hearts we suffer a lot, distraction is momentary and pain reappears sooner or later.
They are beliefs that teach us throughout life, perhaps because while we are distracted, people think we are doing well. You can even have fun! The problem comes later, when all this distraction is over.
Heal wounds and move on; it’s not easy, but it’s the only way ??
-Paulo Coelho-
Don’t be distracted and face your pain. No one likes to face something that hurts, but it’s better to face it now than to prolong the suffering that can happen at any time. It’s the right time: heal your wound.
Some people say that pain that affects the heart hurts more than pain that affects the physical. It is normal: physical pain does not affect us emotionally, but emotional or emotional pain does.
You can and must be strong. You can be strong enough to hold on and not be tempted by distractions and time, because you know it’s not the best solution and that when the pain returns, it’s going to be a lot worse.
They never told you: don’t postpone tomorrow what you can do today, you can use this popular saying in this situation. Don’t you stop acting for fear of what might happen?
“Has it been said that time heals all wounds?I don’t agree, the wound continues. Over time, the mind protects against madness by covering the wound with scars and the pain subsides, but never goes away.
-Rose Kennedy-
There are no assumptions here. Of course, we always hold hope deep within us, which is why it’s so hard to release the traps of time and distractions, but what’s worth it?At the end of the day, you know what the result will be.
It is important to stay away from anything that prevents you from stopping and taking care of your wound. Every time he thinks about it, he suffers. Don’t hide the wound for fear of facing it directly and reliving that pain, so don’t worry, be strong and face the situation, the suffering will be much less if you face everything now and not procrastinate. Come on, close your wounds.