I’m tired of being the last person to look at me. This person is available to everyone, but never to himself. Anyone who thinks it annoys others says what they don’t expect to hear. I want to finish it now! I decided you’d give me a chance.
I want to end all these concerns that make me what I am not, those who were born from the attempt not to disturb those around me, but who somehow hide my true identity, and also the feeling of collateral guilt that accompanies it. whenever I think others expected something more from me.
- I want to take off this costume.
- This mask under which my true identity is.
- I no longer want to be in the shadows or be the one who always agrees with everything when I’m not really.
- I’ll stay with me to give me a chance.
“Until you like yourself, you won’t appreciate your time. As long as you don’t value your time, you won’t. -METRO. Scott Peck-
From now on, I’ll start loving myself. Although it is not a simple thing, since my tendency is to criticize myself and blame myself for almost everything, I will try little by little, without haste, but without s stop, and above all, I will really try.
“You’ve been criticizing yourself for years and it hasn’t worked. Try to congratulate yourself and see what happens?. – Louise L. Hay-
Every day, instead of punishing myself for what I’ve done wrong, I’ll congratulate myself on everything I can do, as well as keeping and enjoying everything that makes me feel good, it’s about changing perspectives and looking at me differently. , in a way that I am proud of myself. I may have little practice and it is a little difficult, but if I never start I will hardly appreciate myself and, therefore, it will be impossible to give me priority.
Another thing I’m going to do is accept myself, it’s true. I will give myself permission to be the person hiding in me, who until now has been afraid to leave because she felt rejected. I’m going to show myself what I’m like. And I will do it not only for me, but for all, I will be the same person alone and accompanied.
Besides, the most important promise I will make is to give myself priority, that is, I will wonder in any kind of situation what I feel and what I want, and on that basis I decide, not as before, if you were wondering, was to find out what the others were and what they wanted, and then act accordingly.
I decided that I would give priority to myself: to be myself; free and without masks.
If there’s one thing I deserve and I’ve refused so far, it’s to be happy, so I’m going to give it a try. I will stay with me to look myself deeply in the eye, so that what I do begins to align with my desires and needs It is true!I’m going to be honest with myself, take my hand and never let go, I want to be my company, my support and my protection.
“When you believe in yourself, there is nothing beyond your reach. “- Wayne Dyer-
I will forgive myself all those moments when I left for the end or even did not consider myself and those others when, although I knew what I wanted, I betrayed myself, because a necessary condition to be happy is to be at peace with myself, without guilt, rejection and punishment.
As soon as I reconcile with myself, I feel authentic and brave enough to show me what I am like, I will begin to build my happiness, it is true. Because if there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s that this wonderful feeling isn’t going to knock on my door and ask to come in without me having decided to adopt it as my attitude to life. me and prioritizing myself, it is essential to appreciate the simple things that are there and that most of the time go unnoticed.
“Happiness is inner, it is not external, so it does not depend on what we have, but on who we are. . – Pablo Neruda-
Just as I will allow myself to be happy, I will also allow myself to be sad, accept any kind of emotion you feel will also help me to understand myself and, of course, to allow others to understand me, because if I give myself a chance, I will also give it to others.