I am tired of being this satellite that elusives you lost and aimless, like a moon that no longer shines and has lost its magic and even its light.
Why do we sometimes reach those extremes, where we lose balance and self-esteem on other people’s part?Not knowing how, something is taken from us until we collapse, until we leave with an empty soul and without dreams.
- It is important that you remember that every affective relationship is based on living with someone.
- Never make the mistake of living your life for and for another person.
- Putting the keys to happiness in your pocket.
However, we know clearly that forgetfulness is not easy, in fact, today no one has an ideal cure, with which he can forever dispel every moment of a bad relationship, forgetfulness is not the solution to all hearts and souls.
It is about lowering the volume to remember, of disabling its importance so that its noise does not prevent us from living again with balance and dignity, because those who make us forget who we went have no right to keep meaning in our memory. .
The need for oblivion arises after making a decision and taking the first step, so it involves a great act of courage and emotional maturity when we realize that we must leave something that was hurting us.
No matter how many days pass, how many seasons you see pass through the window, time will not make you forget, what will allow you to do this is put things in place and, above all, mature. Because the really hard part is forgetting who made us forget everything.
If you have lived a relationship with these characteristics, in which you realized that you were no longer yourself, you will certainly live the long process of healing and inner healing that involves “seeing us again”. In any case, what leads us to these extremes, why do we get carried away so blindly by and for another?
One way or another, what we have to do is dilute ourselves with the person we love, losing our individuality. The problem is that we often do it of our own free will, completely in love and understanding this form of love and the relationship itself.
Gradually, there comes a time when we place more importance on the needs of others than on our own. You’ll be surprised to learn that there’s not always a couple’s tax on each other for this to happen.
In popular psychology we talk, for example, about Wendy’s syndrome, in reference to Wendy Darling’s character in Peter Pan’s novel. Are they usually women who understand love?take care of the partner while you leave yourself in the background.
If there is one member of the couple in charge of making decisions and prioritizing the other, an unequal relationship condemned to suffering is generated, the other person will be violated by their self-esteem and integrity, so to speak, as the satellite. that revolves around a planet, without purpose, without light and more every day adrift. Forgetting oneself comes gradually and irretrievably.
Since you have a heart, oblivion will be that stuck lever that will rarely allow you to free yourself from yesterday’s memories, however, sometimes what we seek is not to forget the relationship itself, but to dispel the person we were before. and that we had very little of us.
There are relationships that make us someone we are not, weaken us, violate our values and traffic our feelings, when you look in the mirror and do not recognize yourself due to the sadness in your expression, you react.
Who becomes someone who is not, in fact, does not like what he is, but the image he has created or has in his head.
It will always be harder to forget who gave you good things to remember, if you only offer tears and disappointments, let them out of your mind and heart, like a piece of broken wood that finally lets you breathe.