An entire woman is tired of hearing this expression that she needs to find her half orange, that the coffee will be liquid or that she will be Aunt No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no One does not need a partner to be a valid and complete person.
As Helen Fixher said, “Creating bonds is human, it’s an impulse that emerged four million years ago. “However, oranges are destined to be consumed, not to complement us. Believing this, we often settle for a few drops of juice.
- We can share life with whoever we want.
- But not out of necessity.
- But by choice Is the art of living together more complex than the art of falling in love?.
Survival Tips
I don’t need anybody.
But love.
Love a lot
Love beyond your means.
-Intranerso-
To love is not to possess, to love is to respect. And of all people, we have to come first, if you don’t belong, you won’t be able to manage your relationships with maturity.
In this sense, maturity helps us to choose better, while allowing us to maintain constructive relationships that allow us to overcome these barriers that the couple finds in their coexistence.
In other words, we must aim for happiness for ourselves and not through the person who accompanies us. A relationship must be a very important part of our lives, but never a condition.
Whether or not the couple works is something we can hardly value at first, so it’s only in time that we realize that more than choosing the person we want to share life with considering how much we love them, we have to choose it. harmonizing motivations.
However, choosing using this criterion takes a long time. And I’m sorry to say, but it’s impossible to explain why some couples work and others don’t. However, we can determine which factors ensure a good balance in the relationship. Let’s look at this briefly:
Both members must agree on how they want to live their sexuality, to do so we must follow and respect a few basic points:
A person’s genius is their self-regulated conscious behavior, that is, the way he expresses his personality to the world, in this sense it is worth saying that it can be matured as a couple, but in order for him to offer stability must be done together and balanced, only in this way can we combine the way we are.
Being compatible, or at least respecting ideas, religious beliefs, cultural habits, hygiene, leisure style and other issues is the third element of a couple’s stability. Out of respect, the “but” may not be appropriate.
A quarter of a couple’s stability is that, in addition to being firmly supported in the present, one must have the property of looking positively to the future.
To transform sentimental farewell into learning it is necessary to know that analyzing the causes that caused it and learning a good lesson will allow you to develop future relationships, that is, it is necessary to understand that we do not learn through suffering, but by the way we suffer.
If we are able to find the positive and not become neurotic by a failure in love, we can generate new hopes, for this it is important that in addition to taking care of self-esteem and self-love, we avoid making certain mistakes with new partners.
Thus, we must choose to relate to those people with whom we feel relaxed, with whom we can be ourselves and not feel constrained, in the same way, the right person will be the one with whom we feel that our choice is the best.
Expecting to succeed over the experience is not easy, but the truth is that far from impossible, it is rewarding.
Source: Love in Antoni Bolinches’ second attempt
Photos of Daniela Uhligh.