In life, there are many occasions when we are surprised by the attitude of the people around us, who believed themselves faithful and faithful to the feeling of friendship; in fact, we are often unable to recognize the false friend until the damage is done?
The truth is that back attacks often cause great suffering, often suffering is unbearable by the abuse of trust of someone who would have set you on fire at some point.
- As we all know.
- True friendship is a scarce good that feeds on good feelings.
- Hopes and expectations.
- So.
- Whoever has a friend has no treasure.
- Has a fortune.
As terrible as it may seem, friendships also expire (such as relationships), expire when we stop taking care of it and forget about the values that underpin it.
In those moments we can feel that something is breaking in us and that our world is taking a turn, our castles are collapsing and we encounter a totally destroyed world.
Rebuilding faith in humanity and feelings may not be easy; therefore, it can be difficult to pass up this part of our lives.
In this sense, these friendships that have betrayed us do not honor the end of friendship, they were simply relationships that may even have had beautiful moments, but that were transformed halfway, or perhaps, from the beginning.
There are 5 possible profiles of false friends that we must recognize to prevent them from influencing our lives.
Having ambitions and concerns is not bad, but there are people who always want to be superior, are characterized by not being happy and never satisfied with our achievements, they will always be better than us and do not listen to us, they just want to be heard.
They define themselves as unable to feel fortunate and always seek compassion and support constantly, complain about everything and life is always a tragedy for them, no matter how bad you have a bad time, they will end up comforting us and, in the future In the midst of everything, they end up complaining about everything that happens to them.
They are people who make us feel guilty and selfish, every time they move a finger or open their mouths to say something, everything you do will be wrong and will never make you feel like you’re doing something right, unless they want something from you.
Talking, talking about other people’s wickedness, or judging anything are your best qualities. When you’re with them, you realize that they only question and care about the latest events in your life, and insistently.
There are people who try to enjoy everything, even in the most difficult situations, usually the balance tilts in your favor and will only come to you if they are sure they can take advantage of the situation.
Yes, there are good people. Not a hundred betrayals can make us believe that the world is full of darkness. Besides, it’s clear that we’re not foolproof, and that sometimes we’re wrong without the intention of “stabbing our friends in the back. “
In fact, not everyone is bad or good in their entirety, only when they betray us, the actor of this act seems to be a terrible demon, yet it is good to use these experiences to learn to see things and choose who we want. we want around us.
It is likely that no matter how much armor we put on, we will continue to find bad relationships along the way, so even if doubts, fears, and lies only harm and poison us, we must strive to cultivate openness, honesty, and Loyalty without armor or mask, just sincerely.
Images courtesy of Nicoletta Ceccoli