I’m afraid to tell you that I love you and that these two words come out of my trembling lips and wipe out everything we have, I’m afraid because friendship between you and me is a unique bond we’ve built over the years and despite the difficulties.
Those two words I uttered several times, but that I didn’t really feel?These? I love you? They were more out of love than for true love, now I understand that when you really feel what you say, fear appears, because those words carry a part of you that looks like you really are.
- I’m afraid because I know I love you.
- Because every time I touch your skin I shudder.
- Every time I see butterflies in my stomach beat and every time I hear your voice my soul feels a caress.
- Like a gentle breeze that comes from spring caresses the leaves of the trees.
It took me a while to understand, but I know I love you for the way you make me laugh at difficulties, because you know that silence is part of the trust we have and that only presence is enough to show that we value ourselves. But most of all, because you know me exactly as I am and you accept my darker side without hesitation for a second.
Then I know that the feeling is authentic because we do not idealize, but we know each other, the tenderness we show and the closeness we have shows that the affection between us is true and, in my case, that affection has become love.
“To trust is to put the most precious, the darkest and most feared in the hands of the other, knowing that he will only use these things to help you transcend. “Diego Castrion-
They say our house is where our heart is, and I always feel at home when I’m by your side sharing my life with you, so I know that if our bond is so real and so sense, the sincerity of saying what I feel I can’t finish it.
When it comes to true friendship, sincerity cannot harm it, even if they disagree, if I decide to tell you how I feel, maybe you don’t feel the same way, or our friendship becomes a new, even deeper bond, but the same.
If I decide to say how I feel is because I suffer to keep it a secret and there is no need to suffer for something that can be changed, because you too can love me, I will lose nothing but the dream that I already lose now when I say everything I think of us.
If you do not share the same feelings do not worry, be sincere and say without fear, I can accept a rejection because, precisely because I love you, I understand that I am not the person who makes you happiest and I can accept that another person fills that space in your heart, even if I have not been able to do it. Love cannot do everything, but friendship always triumphs in the face of adversity.
Don’t worry, I know that love can’t be asked and if a love doesn’t give up you should let it go, I know I’m not perfect and maybe you don’t even see me as a friend, and you even consider me a sister, but I’ve learned that those who don’t take risks don’t win.
I also know that I will suffer when I see it with other people, that is why I have decided to do it now and it is only when these two words come out of my mouth that I will be sure to know everything to avoid this suffering. say that I love you opens the door to a new life with infinite possibilities.
Perhaps what I am saying sounds dreamy to you, that the pain of rejection shatters friendships, but mature love is understanding and puts all the happiness of the other before it, because that is love, respect, understanding and understanding to the contrary. be possession.
On the other hand, if you decide to stay away from me because these two words scare you, because you don’t conceive of a friendship in a rejection of a “I love you,” then I’ll know you’re not a true friend. True friendship means living with the contradictions of its members. True friendships know that they can’t always agree and that feeling uncomfortable after that is nothing strange.
Perhaps it is better to stop and observe, talk, try to understand, and set limits that both can tolerate, learning to live together will be our challenge. But if we’re true friends, we’ll have a solid foundation to rebuild.
For all this I know what to tell you, I love you should never be afraid if it comes from a friend, because even if we are afraid to destroy what unies us, living in a lie does more harm than saying what we really feel. and what may or may not separate us.
You might think that friendships are fragile in the face of love, but are they actually stronger because it’s not the first adversity or storm they’ve faced, friendships have really overcome a lot together and so?I love you? DeberÃa. no cause fear, but should be understood as a new challenge. So I’m going to say, loud and clear, do I love you?