I lived completely deceived for a long time and the worst thing is that I wasn’t even aware of it: I thought my life made sense until I realized it was what it could be, not what I wanted to be.
It’s not that someone cheated on me, it’s not that I wasn’t honest with myself, it’s a strange feeling because in this bubble of convenience you can’t understand that you don’t fully feel your essence or, what’s the same, you feel calm and well, but you’re not completely full of vitality.
- And when you finally fill up with vitality? Self-esteem finally seems to be in place and dreams and goals a little closer.
I daresay authenticity must be in the pockets of all the research we intend to undertake, because only truly pure things are invaluable. Imagine what it would be like to meet others as you wish and not under the circumstances.
The transcendence of being who you want to be and not what you can implies precisely the freedom we have cultivated for so many years, experiences and feelings, our experiences shape us, and there is nothing more rewarding than being aware of it and being able to share it.
Being authentic is the only way we should be honestly loved, and one of the main reasons why the people around us decide to stay with us: there are no lies for anyone, not even for you, and relationships are healthy and strong.
Being what you really want costs a little more than you can be and, although it sounds in return for language, if you stop thinking you will see that it is an absolute certainty: society, with its lack of respect or lack of tolerance makes it very difficult to open ourselves completely to the world.
However, never forget that all this can only hurt if you give it authority: always act as you feel, respect the other and release all obstacles that arise.
If you’re also in this situation where you’re not even aware that you’re not 100% out there, maybe it’s time to slow down, who knows, maybe you’ll find an opportunity that will give you even more happiness in your life.
This question is probably the most difficult to answer, because it will depend a lot on each of them, how you feel and how far you are willing to go, however, one of the processes that you have to follow to be what you want to be. is to learn to be alone to find your inner peace.
That is, if you intend to act honestly with others, you must first do it with yourself, and this happens to start listening to you and getting to know you, to understand that you do not need a company that complements you, to be aware of your flaws. and its virtues, recognize what bothers you and what you don’t like, recognize mistakes, and heal wounds. In short, organize your time and ask yourself to understand yourself.
When you realize you’re who you really want to be now, you’ll realize you weren’t there before. Chip?has changed and it seems that the whole circle of your life has done the same for you: you smile more, the challenges get easier and the little things go unnoticed. That is why I ask you to stop looking in the wrong place, so that you fall into your truth and not in the serious accident of wasting time.