“I can’t stand the wait,” “But why haven’t you called me before, do I want the day of the tour to come?”, Do I want to be promoted now?If you are one of those who repeat over and over again some of these phrases, welcome to the club of the impatient. Is it bad? Let’s say it’s an attitude that damages emotional health, which is useless and absolutely useless.
Let’s think about it. We’re waiting for a call that doesn’t arrive, we looked at the phone a thousand times, we were nervous, irritated. We can’t wait. But will this attitude really make the call sooner?As far as we’re sorry, things are on par and our complaints aren’t enough to change this time. The only thing we can do when we take a walk with our patience is to arouse negative feelings. that damage our emotional state.
- In this sense.
- We must ask ourselves: why do we get impatient when things don’t go the way and when we want to?The answer must be found within ourselves.
- Experts point out that our minds are the main culprit.
- Apparently.
- Our impatience is activated when we are not well with ourselves and we interpret external events on the basis of a limiting belief: our happiness is elsewhere and in another destination.
Eckhart Tolle describes it this way: what causes tension is to be here wanting to be there, or to be in the present wanting to be in the future. Do we forget the one forever? Carpe diem? To transport us to other places where we think we are happier. Letting go is possible. Simply offer to change your attitude and try to better understand the events that are happening in our daily lives.
It is essential to realize that everything around us has its function and time, no long as we want to become superheroes, capable of accelerating things and making them happen as and when we want, we will not succeed. and accepts that the best time and place to be happy is now.
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