Have you ever wondered what loyalty is? For each of us, it’s certainly different. True fidelity, however, is distinguished by its purity and depth.
There is a lot of talk about fidelity in romantic relationships, because it is a subject that always arises because of the great importance attributed to it.
- Fidelity is understood to be one of the fundamental values of the couple and one of the pillars that underpin the relationship.
When two people commit to being faithful to each other, they do so as a duty, as if it were something they could choose.
This is the way we have to come together, form, maintain a relationship. By imposition, by the promise of being together. But we do not take into account that love is above all that; it’s something that sinks and we can’t imprison.
Being faithful in a relationship where there is love implies that there is no sacrifice or repression of the desire to be with another person, a tendency that is not given as long as love is maintained.
Love is an unpredictable energy and it’s something that scares us
But what does fidelity really mean?
There are many hidden fears behind the design of fidelity. Sometimes we confuse fidelity with possession.
Fidelity is present in relationships as a double-edged sword, a commitment that goes beyond love and respect. By defending themselves in morals and in law, people try to secure each other’s love.
Being faithful ends up being more of an obligation than an act that really has to do with how you feel.
When, from the beginning, being with the other person and staying faithful requires effort, thinking about what you might or might not miss with others, an alarm sounds to indicate that our love does not have enough strength.
In this situation, there is not enough delivery to merge with the other person and the satisfaction of not needing anyone else.
The feeling of love in the couple has the great power to make us want to be with one person, who we simply feel captivated and crazy about him. There’s no other person at the time that interests us.
Thus, a fidelity that does not involve culture or morality, but feeling, respect and coherence with oneself will not be an obligation.
Being true to what one feels is spontaneous, deeply rooted in the feeling of love.
Then it doesn’t matter if it’s available to me or not, because love can even go beyond reciprocity.
True fidelity has nothing to do with possession or obligation, it has nothing to do with the fear that that person might be with another.
When love is really present in the relationship, there is nothing to fear.
Infidelity serves as an indicator to show that love is not compromised, that it has been relegated, and no long as we strive for it to return, the energy that moves it is not controllable.
As long as the feeling persists, I will be true to what I feel, for it is inevitable for me, because my energy does not move me towards anyone but her, because all my thoughts, desires and attention are placed in the person I love. .