There are people who, far from joining us, turn us away, should not give them credit or voice in making decisions about our lives or let them influence our emotions, our health and our desires.
That’s why it’s important that we always remember a phrase that most of us know, and that says for itself everything that needs to be said: “Let yourself care who sums you up and who doesn’t add you out. “
- In truth.
- Those who give meaning to our dreams and lives are those around us.
- So we need these people to have roles in our lives that allow us to grow and help us feel good every step of the way.
It is best to give importance to those who speak to us with the sincerity that comes from pure affection and good wishes, who add to us and do not subtract us.
Therefore, since we are partly created by what people bring us, we must look for what brings good feelings, which makes us feel good and evolve as much as possible, so our behaviors will also be rewarding to others.
We must protect ourselves from behaviors that seek to nullify a part of us and boycott our personal growth, so we must begin to wonder if the people at our side help us add experiences and generate good feelings.
We are the ones who give ourselves freedom, with these people offering us wings to fly, roots to return and reasons to stay, so when these three premises are not present, we must begin to strive to change what does not work.
Sometimes we realize belatedly that we are ourselves who we must love first and that it is only through this self-esteem that we can avoid harming ourselves for free.
Of course, wounds often open unintentionally, without intent or malice; however, there are other situations in which people oppress us by cutting off our possibilities and choices in life through demands, manipulation or intimidation.
Thus, through the positive exchanges that arise within us, we will strengthen our ties and be better able to resolve conflicts and frustrations that may arise and feed our feelings.
Perhaps not to worry about those who do not care about me, I must know how to affirm my essence, cultivate self-love and lead life with determination without leaving those who should not get involved where they are not called.
Only in this sense can we grow by the hand of people who accept us as we are, who treat us with respect and who exchange informed looks of complicity for the sincerity of a genuine interest in our well-being.