At first, we’re like anxious children. We want everything to happen as quickly as possible, we dream of devouring experiences, of squeezing life. Later come the conquests, the stones along the way?However, that’s what life is all about, moving forward, taking on change and being. humble along this wonderful life journey.
Who in life has ever wanted anything to happen as quickly as possible?And who has never wished at any time that a moment would be eternal, that time would stop where it was, like those rocks in the middle of the ocean?
- It doesn’t matter.
- Because the good times will always be etched in our memory.
- Man.
- So to speak.
- Is made of memories and we spend much of the day talking about good times and bad times.
Admitting that our life passes a little more every day and that it advances with a tic that no one can stop is without a doubt something that scares us and forces us to think, however, there is no reason to be afraid of this path, to move forward. ahead.
We are all small tenants in this imperfect world and full of wonderful things. We must not be afraid of the years, but of the immovable life, empty years without emotions, triumphs and, why not, also failures that we have never experienced. I’ve learned a lot from.
Let us reflect briefly today on this advancement of our experience, let us talk about these permanent aspects that we must take care of in the day to day in order to lead a fuller life.
In fact, you could say that in life everything happens, everything happens and everything changes, however, some elements must be fixed points in our particular microuniverse:
Love, respect, dignity and our need to cultivate personal growth must be essential pillars of our daily lives, windmills that we must guide with strength and integrity along the way, whatever they may be.
There are times when, in this vast vital adventure, we decline many of these aspects for the benefit of others, there are those who prioritize their relationships at some point in their lives, to the point of forgetting themselves.
And while everything is justified if feelings are intense, we must know how to maintain balance, offering ourselves to others to the point of forgetting our needs sooner or later will cause us to fall into frustration, so we will stop moving on.
When you lose the ability to dream, when your days are marked by worry or dissatisfaction, your life stops, the weight you accumulate binds you to suffering. Breathe, relativize everything that holds you and break the chains you deem necessary?
You may also think that another aspect that you should not change throughout your life is undoubtedly values. Well, will there always be those basic patterns that we’ll never break, like respect for ourselves and others, honesty, bravery?
However, as part of this vital advance, we can all begin to make small changes in our personality and even in our scale of values, based on our lived experiences and everything will undoubtedly be for the better, because it is part of the process of Learning and growth.
Don’t be afraid of change, they are anchors that break to move forward with a little more wisdom according to the facts lived.
The love we feel for our neighbor, our family, our partner or our children are also fixed points in our vital essence.
However, love is not a stable entity in time, love changes and adapts as well. An example of this is our own romantic relationship.
Both members must adapt to the vital changes that occur over time: changes in work, arrival of children, balance of individual growth with the growth of the couple itself.
These are all moments that will require our dedication, wisdom, and ability to move forward, being two people in the same existential unity, we share the same roots fueled by love, but we raise our personal branches to continue to grow personally.
? You are the priority, the protagonist of your life and you are important in your world, do not attach yourself to fears or indecision because, in the long run, frustration will come, the lament of an unbridled life.
? Never stop taking care of your ‘inner child’. You must dream for yourself and for life, to be spontaneous in all the wisdom you have acquired. Enjoy the simplest things, love, experiment, dare.
Do not cling to the mistakes of the past or feed on nostalgia, life does not wait for those who stop in their own darkness, life seeks light and their own freedom, let yourself grow with it, with optimism, with imagination and simplicity.
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