There is a big difference between leaving marks and leaving scars, the first are definitive marks that we want to show with pride in our skin and in our memory, because they remind us moments of love, friendship and growth.
Scars are made up of unwanted and unjust harm, pain, injury, humiliation, envy or loneliness, they are marks that we do not want to have and that remind us of a pain that we do not want.
- That is why it is important to look at each of our attitudes with an interest in doing good and taking good as a flag.
- Because quality and emotional affection must be two priorities when choosing how we want to communicate.
Once broken, we’re indestructible. The good thing is to get to the bottom, that there is nothing left to stop us, that there are no forces that stun us or uncertainties about what awaits us, then there is only the possibility of gaining momentum and resurgence.
Turns out sometimes it’s inevitable to get hurt, in fact, it’s important that bad things happen to us, that we know the pain of playing with fire or cutting ourselves with the edge of that knife.
It’s not easy to understand, but it’s inherent in life. Injuries aren’t always serious because they appreciate our leather and make us embrace the meaning of life.
It is really learning that leaves traces, regardless of the teaching method, this is important because depending on how we look at what has hurt us we can appreciate it one way or another.
That is to say that it is not the same to look in the sun in the middle of the day without glasses, than to do it with glasses at sunset, we must be aware that when we think of our wounds with bitterness and fear, what we do contributes to their infection.
So maybe the best time to look back isn’t when we feel most vulnerable. For example, if your partner doesn’t care about you as much as you want, you may want to avoid thinking about when you were unfaithful.
It is about respecting rhythms and times, not being emotional masochists and trying to heal wounds if necessary, not when the context leads to the return of pain.
Every person who goes through our lives is unique. He always leaves a little bit of himself and takes a little from us. There will be those who take a long time, but there will be those who leave nothing, it is clear proof that two souls are not found by chance. -Jorge Luis Borges-
On the other hand, there are people, situations, and places that leave an eternal mark on the essence of our being, which give us the opportunity to guide our present by healing our past and future.
This must always be our goal: to leave footprints and help heal these inevitable pains, it will be our best lifeguard, because it will fill everything around us with wonderful meaning.
It is important not to be marked for anything, and when you do it must be discreet, gentle and kind, this will guarantee you conflict-free ties and, of course, memories based on understanding, well-being and the happiness of having an unforgettable memory. steel people by our side.