In any relationship where there is affection, whether in marriage, with children or even in a friendship, there must be a balance between my and yours; between your needs and mine.
It sounds complex, but in reality, the magic of any healthy human relationship is based on mutual respect. Take care, but don’t forget themselves.
- To give wings to fly is to allow the individuality of the other.
- So that it cultivates their interests and develops fully.
- If the person is happy with himself this positive energy infects the other.
- Love is strengthened when we respect the space and needs of all.
Rooting our emotional relationships does not mean “mastering or controlling. ” Feeding our roots means cultivating affection, respect and love on a daily basis to grow together.
“In love, I want the wings to fly and the roots to grow. “People can choose any kind of relationship, but true happiness in our social and emotional relationships comes from this magical balance.
We will start by analyzing our relationship with the couple and invite you to make a simple reflection, in your past or current relationships have you been able to evolve as a person ?, have you shared bonds that can offer freedom, protection and complicity?
If there is no harmonic growth, able to evolve over time and with everyone’s needs, the roots weaken, personal frustration appears and contaminates the couple.
What is “discordant growth” when everyone prioritizes their needs and forgets to act for the relationship.
We started an emotional and passionate relationship. We have created a world of our own and even forget about friends; It’s hard to get out of this sphere of intimacy that we created.
Over time, these relationships become “black holes” that eventually envelop us.
Therefore, it is essential to take into account the comments below to maintain the balance of the relationship.
? I’m aware of my needs, from here and now and I try to get to know myself better.
? I’m responsible for my personal growth
? I have to learn from everyday experiences, conversations, travel, reading and even my partner.
? My personal growth affects my partner’s growth. If I am happy and satisfied with who I am, what I have and how I see myself, I project all these positive emotions in my relationship.
? We need to have a constant dialogue on all issues, because each couple needs to renew their ties as time goes on and new situations arise (birth of children, change of employment?).
? A balance must be maintained between individual goals and couples’ goals, mutual support and thus “strengthening roots and offering wings”.
To educate happy children, give them wings to fly and roots to return, so they know they can count on your support to become satisfied, responsible and independent people.
We have said many times that attachment hinders our emotional freedom. Of course, there are toxic attachments, which eventually dominate us and hinder our development, but attachments are also part of our roots, a healthy attachment brings us security.
We talk about this healthy attachment, which are the bonds children make with their families, these bonds give you confidence and safety to flap your wings and fly where your heart and needs take you.
The important thing is that they know that they can count on their roots, that they can come back when they feel the need.
It’s the magic of balance: offering a love that makes us fly while we learn.