In my worst moments, I was alone. I saw how everyone turned their backs on me, or at least the people around me, in the good times it is very easy to find company, but in the bad no one wants it, to end my sadness I received criticisms, contempt and coldness that have frozen my body. I felt sad, very sad.
I stopped believing in the human being, hid like a little snail hidden in his little house waiting for that sun that never comes out, I didn’t want to talk to anyone, I didn’t want to pick up the phone, all the conversations seemed equally empty and inhumane.
However, I made the effort, the effort to learn to see things differently.
I used my little emotional intelligence. I thought: I wish I was a little older!And I started giving up all these people, all these big meetings that made me feel even more alone and sad, why?
There is nothing sadder than being in a place that for others is a paradise, but for you it is but the most empty desert.
Then I began to broaden my horizons and relied on people who, with their small gestures, made me feel good: a word of love, a hug, a sincere and transparent look.
That’s when I started to see things differently: the snail began to see sunlight inside its little shell.
“Am I alone when I look for a hand and only find fists?
? Tom Wolfe?
Perhaps the reality is that we are all alone in life and we must accept it realistically, no one can protect us all the time. Everyone has their own problems and obligations, but any simple gesture, which is not so expensive, can greatly help us at a bad time we are going through.
Fortunately, we always find people who have the special ability to comfort, when you least expect it they look like that long-awaited sun to cheer you up in a few words, and it’s such a simple thing that you should never forget to practice. these simple gestures with others, gestures that magnify us as people.
Because the saddest thing that can happen is losing humanity, something so easy to forget in a society where prevailing values are not goodness, altruism and respect. A society where he won’t?Me, me and me? I don’t give you my smile, am I busy with other things?.
The coldness, the lack of humanity lead nowhere. Don’t you do with the others what you wouldn’t want them to do to you?It is a great teaching that we often forget to remember.
So we should all look at our own belly button from time to time and think, ‘We all need everyone. ‘Why not start with myself by offering words laden with flowers and not daggers that go straight to my soul and my heart?Does everyone put their grain of sand to form a beautiful mountain?
“We are alone, we live alone, and we die alone. Is it only through love and friendship that we can think, for a moment, that we are not alone?
? Orson Welles?
Dedicated to all those who, for the moment, feel identified with these words. Dedicated to all those who have ceased to believe in the world in which they live. Dedicated to all those who are overwhelmed by the despair of a world that tends. to dehumanize more and more.