It is common to say that interesting people are as rare as pure diamonds that they dazzle only when you look your way. It is not necessary to go so far or be so exaggerated. We are sure that you also have accomplices of adventures. Unforgettable moments and faithful builders of positive emotions, those that make us grow on the inside and smile on the outside.
We all have our secrets and virtues. And we are all, without a doubt, interesting in our own way, but between being interesting and interested, there is an ocean of storms and a rough sea.
- How many times have you dealt with people interested in your daily life?They are present in many daily relationships.
- From social to personal.
- And no.
- It’s not about cutting ties.
- Closing doors to these kinds of personalities.
It is only a matter of knowing how to manage the emotions that provoke us, of imposing limits, of making people see, of living in peace and of knowing how to say when necessary.
Life must be a continuous exchange of affections, knowledge and experiences, so that we all win, add and do not lose anything, but it is not always like this.
Connecting with interesting people happens at the same time, even without knowing why very well. They appear in our lives and we feel an almost immediate union in terms of ideas, passions and afiations. Our worlds collide and we both win. Generally speaking, we can define them as follows:
It is not easy to find one or more people who perfectly match our lines of thought, passions and interests. In fact, interesting people, instead of “integrating”, often what they do is challenge us, offer us new things, etc. Grow.
We all need this magic that sometimes comes off the outside and takes us off course as we follow our lives to explore new forms of knowledge, they are very stimulating personalities, who share the same values at the same time and, in this way, a subtle balance is born.
We live with interested people every day and of course it is not always easy and we do not always want to break this relationship, could it always be our parents who end up sharpening this implicit selfishness, or even this colleague who always manipulates us? with your subtle interests?
Anyone who is used to always seeking their own benefit in their relationships risks living in absolute solitude. And certainly, for reasons of inner balance and even health, you have to surround yourself with interesting people without interest, even if it is. It’s often hard to get away from them, what can we do?How do we deal with them?
? Do not give in to small acts or this will eventually lead to large resignations.
You never say that?For something you don’t want to do, even if it’s insignificant. In doing so, by saying “no,” it is common for the other person to be surprised and even offended. However, we must clarify from the outset what the limits are.
? It is common for interested people to end up resorting to emotional blackmail. “If you don’t, it’s because you don’t love me. Don’t allow this, emotional blackmail is a kind of implicit abuse and, as such, should make you see. “If you really love me, you won’t ask me that. “
? You must pay attention to every word and every act. Interested people are often very subtle in their actions, hence the need to be attentive so as not to get carried away by their will, by their selfishness disguised that sometimes lives “wrapped in gift paper”.
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