“In the safety of intimacy are fulfilled some of the most beautiful desires. Crazy imaginings that have to do with concerns confessable only by candlelight of trust and protection, which offer the security that we will not be judged?
In a relationship, intimacy is fundamental. While some may think that the word is limited to sexual context, it also involves other problems such as trust, complicity, or knowing what the other wants.
- This time.
- We will focus a little on the sexual routine.
- Which is given under the sheets (or anywhere in the house.
- As we know that for passion there is no place or time).
- If you want to improve intimacy with your partner.
- It may be time to make a small effort to achieve it.
Remember that, as the first condition “No equa no”, both must agree that the changes are necessary for the relationship to improve, if any of them, at any time, do not feel any desire, are very tired or, that day , prefer to do something else, you may have to wait until the two are in true harmony
Intimacy in sex involves various problems, from pleasure and feelings to each other’s feelings and how we feel right now. It’s not about what women or men like the most, it’s about finding a balance where both people feel good.
To improve the intimacy of the couple, one of the undeniable steps is to pay attention to what they feel and, at the same time, take care of what the other is going on, do you think it is impossible?Of course not!
While we can say that it’s one thing to have sex and another to have sex, we know that it’s also good to switch between passion and romance, it’s good for the couple and enhances the intimate experience.
Eye contact during sex is important to increase the level of complicity and also to know what happens to the other, if you close your eyes for more fun you miss something vital: looking at your partner, it is not a matter of always doing it, but of finding a balance.
Remember that sex is the ideal way to communicate with the person we choose.
Perhaps right now, touch is the most important meaning, but there are others, such as sight, hearing, smell and even taste, everyone can sometimes add extra excitement and fun that we’ve never experienced before.
Intimacy happens not only when we have sex, but also when we need to talk about sex. If we talk about other things with our partner, why not talk about sex too?
No one has the power to read anyone’s thought and there are things that, if not expressed in words, will never communicate, so on many occasions our partner would be happy to please us, but we have not been able to create the wealth of intimacy to make such communication possible.
Isn’t that a shame?
On the other hand, some people are more ashamed to look them in the eye, in private, than to undress; it is as if they feel really exposed and fragile, a weakness that, for some reason, frightens them.
Overcoming this feeling can lead to wonderful communication and, by extension, your partner can give you even more pleasure than you imagined.
Often, unintentionally, we are the ones who put chains to our own pleasure.
Since we talk about fears and insecurities, one way to increase intimacy with our partner is to let them “see” us, especially women, who are the most complex in their body and do not want to leave the light on or choose certain postures. where they feel most vulnerable.
As in other aspects of the relationship, growth is necessary for something to develop fully, in the sexual sphere could not be different, that growth requires intimacy, which in turn requires confidence.
A confidence that, like a good dish, needs time to prepare and we don’t always have that time on our schedules, is an investment that we often neglect or plan to make naturally, when in reality it is impossible that nothing will happen when it is the last of our priorities.
The thing is that planning intimate moments is not bad, this should be the case when we are aware that, temporarily, we do not leave room for this to happen spontaneously.
Better yet, it will have an impact on their daily life, because, as I mentioned above, the intimacy of the couple is not only the result of sexual contact, but also of knowing each other, of knowing what the other wants, of having fun and letting them do the same, as well as trying to find out (and find) what they both like.