Perhaps one of the reasons we really enjoy a sunset is the same one that makes introverted people so true: the beauty of knowing how to enjoy calm, introverted people are labeled as antisocial and not that they don’t like parties or noise, but they find barriers to communicating with others.
A night alone, after a good dinner and a TV series, is not considered a waste of time for introverts. On the contrary, it is considered a necessity, a leisure time to enjoy and escape the world. It happens to a third of the population.
- According to Sophia Dembling.
- Psychologist and author of the book?The Introvert? S Way: Living a Quiet Life in a Noisy World?(The way of introverts: to live a quiet life in a noisy world.
- In free translation).
- Introverts like to immerse themselves in conversations about the meaning of life.
- Nature.
- Of love or any other topic that interests them to speak passionately.
We often confuse shyness with introversion, but these are two totally different concepts. Shyness is the fear of social disapproval, while introversion is a preference for environments that are not the most stimulating. Shyness is inherently painful; introversion is not like that.
“If you’re introverted, you also know that prejudice against immobility can cause deep psychic pain. When you were a kid, you may have heard your parents apologize for your shyness. Or at school, it’s possible you’ve been encouraged out of your shell??Susan Cain?
As contradictory as it may seem, it is common for an introvert to feel alone among many people and prefer to use his social energy with friends, colleagues and family How many times do we only speak to fill the space with silence?How many times have we run out of breath talking nonsense?
Introverts can have many social skills and enjoy parties and business meetings, but after a while they prefer to be at home, listen more than they talk, think before speaking, and often feel better expressing themselves by writing than talking. They reject conflicts, they are terrified of “talks,” but they like in-depth discussions.
They get bored easily in environments where too many people or too many stimuli are too much, this is because introverted people pay more attention to detail and get overwhelmed when there are too many stimuli.
“You always say people don’t like you, but people can’t love something that doesn’t exist. “Cath Crowley?
A Harvard University study found several patterns in the brains of people classified as introverts that explained why they were like this: introverts have a greater amount of gray matter, which is also thicker in some areas of the prefrontal cortex, related to abstract thinking and decision. com. -doing.
Another characteristic of the introverted brain is that in addition to having the more developed prefrontal cortex, they also have more activity in the frontal lobes and in the anterior thalamus, allowing them to better remember events, make plans and solve problems.
These types of people pay more attention to what’s going on inside, not in front of them, and they also have more brain activity in areas of learning, motor control and follow-up, which makes them more cautious.
“The beginning of the shadow is silence. ” ? Pythagoras?