“Did the taxi driver drive too slowly? (Instead of saying he got up an hour later), “the oven doesn’t work out well” (instead of saying he was watching TV and forgot his dinner in the oven), these are common excuses when things go wrong. Blaming something outside gives us momentary relief. It is that the mind always tries to distance itself from problems, mainly guilt, as a kind of protection against the judgment of others. result of our imagination and our fears.
The human being seeks to be blamed outside of himself for any problem, if we are right, the merit belongs to us, but if we make mistakes it is certainly the fault of the other, before assuming the mistake, he will say that it was bad luck, the fault of time, the pattern, the means of transport, the horoscope or the alignment of the planets. It is difficult to make mistakes, face reality and accept gaps.
- It’s not a simple task.
- But it’s not impossible either.
- The starting point is to stop blaming others and assume we’re wrong.
- Accept criticism.
- Get rid of pride.
- Be honest with yourself and especially others.
- The tendency of being humano.
- Es not want to see its flaws.
Accept that failure is part of life and that the solution is in us. We can start with the next mistake or failure we always make. We must agree not to get up when the alarm sounds, we don’t concentrate enough to deliver a job on time, we don’t study for the test or we don’t pay attention to the food that makes us feel good.
It is necessary to mature and stop blaming others, we all have flaws and weaknesses. By assuming and accepting our mistakes, we can influence the people around us to act the same way and learn to say ‘I’m wrong’.