Many say that remaining friends with our ex-partner is not healthy or reasonable, as there are opportunities to relapse and return to something we didn’t like, even if it changed for a different kind of relationship.
Some professionals say it is better to bite the egg and build, in the breakup, a life in which there is no room for our ex-pair; on the other hand, there are those who think differently and argue that a person with whom we have had so much affinity that we can continue to offer positive things in another type of relationship.
- Among the main reasons.
- We can mention the fact that if you have had a toxic relationship.
- It is not practical for you to remain friends with your ex.
- It is a person who does not bring anything positive.
- Who simply immerses him in a particularly serious case in the context of toxic relationships is one in which there has been some form of abuse.
On the other hand, we all know that the fact that a relationship is over does not necessarily imply that love, understood from a romantic perspective, has disappeared from the hearts of those who formed a partner, if the feelings are reciprocal (they remain in both), the most common thing is that the couple meet again, unless they have a situation like the one mentioned above.
If feelings are not reciprocal, the rupture becomes complicated, the person he loves is debated between rapprochement and withdrawal, his feelings encourage him to stay close to his ex-partner, but the feeling of being the abandoned person pursues. this type of rupture usually eliminates the possibility of any type of relationship.
One of the best arguments for breaking up a relationship with an ex-partner is to avoid conflicts with the new partner, if there is someone able to make a person jealous is the ex-partner of the current boyfriend. are seen by the current couple as a source of temptation, one of the weakest points through which present love can break.
So it’s not uncommon for a new couple to end a friendship we had with the old boyfriend. Directly? This is not the most common; the most common thing is that you do it indirectly: you create so many conflicts until you can no longer stand and you definitely end the connection you have with the previous relationship, however, contrary to what may seem, this is not a desperate situation: mature people can assimilate the situation and adjust it so as not to cause conflicts or disturbances.
I could have. Broken love is not a broken relationship, in fact, people who once loved each other tend to continue to have some kind of feeling for each other, albeit differently, that is, whoever is important does not cease to be, whether they keep in touch or not.
An old love knows us, knows what hurts us and knows our dreams. Love may have come to an end, but they can still read in our eyes and maintain some complicity with us. Something very difficult to achieve. There are good relationships that take years to completely break.
Why can’t you keep making them happy?Right now, I don’t see a universal reason enough to answer these questions.
In the end, maintaining contact with a former partner is a personal decision that carries risks and can lead to conflict, but can also be a good source of wealth and happiness, even if it is not in the same way as before. you should be smart and, taking into account one of the situations mentioned above and others that you consider relevant, make the best decision.
Image provided by Dragunsk Usf.