Well, as I always say in my articles, I can talk about myself. And yes, I had the so-called ‘1930s crisis’, but it started a little earlier: on the eve of my 27th birthday, three years ago. I remembered a notebook I had when I was 15, with everything I was going to do in the next few years. Example: at 21 I graduated, at 22 I found the work of my dreams, at 24 I met the perfect boy and the 30 already married, with a house and planning my first child. I even had the name options. I’m sorry, girls, but it doesn’t work that way.
Many things can interfere with the course and it is only with the time we learn that during this course we have much to learn. You can’t put your life in a closed book with no room for change, especially in adolescence, at this point where we’re full of dreams, hopes and rebellions. In our heads, we have the world in our hands. And, in a way, in adulthood we can have, but not in a planned way.
- It’s hard to explain.
- The world offers you everything.
- You must be ready to receive and this is an emotional and mental balance.
- To get what you want.
- You need to be prepared and when you’re ready.
- Things happen naturally.
- Without the need for a notebook.
- Strengths.
- Or plans.
Did you have the phase where you admired your parents and wanted to be like them, then you met your teacher and wanted to be a teacher like her, then an astronaut, doctor?Until you find out why you have an affinity and if you play on it. I went through the teacher’s stage, the doctor, the lawyer, until adolescence and decided to be a publicist, then a journalist, to try to do justice to an injustice that my family suffered, I got to the heart of it, thinking I was born for it.
I worked for several major newspapers in the region, advised politicians and major companies, had my own newspaper, money was always good, he came and went at the same speed and yet I felt empty and incomplete. And with the crisis of the 1930s, it stood out in a way that almost drives me crazy What am I doing?Where am I going?
After my last article, I received messages from several mothers asking me how to handle the teenage son who lives with doubts about what and when to do it and I will repeat what I said to each of them: take care, balance, strengthen you and then the people around you will spend a happy, complete and complete summer, and they will follow your example. I used that phrase with my therapist this week. I said: I decided to write because people learn better examples than commandos. That’s why I’m telling my story.
Think about the moment when a person used to throwing trash in the street goes to a city where everything is clean, where locals throw trash in the right place How does the person feel?Automatically inclined to do the same, to do the right thing. When your child sees him as a peaceful and happy person in what he does, balanced, he will feel less hasty and more inclined to do the same, to make decisions that make him happy, excited and inclined to do whatever is necessary for him and not for others.
This work of self-knownness and balance that I do has made me understand that things may not always be as you had planned 10 or 20 years ago Happiness, love, peace, fullness?It all starts with an internal process and then the universe conspires in your favor.
As for the 30-year crisis, it’s easier to put an end to it when you really discover who you are and are on the right path to happiness, no matter who’s with you, whether you have children or not. fear: things will go as they should go. You owe it to yourself, not to others.
Namaste.