Until recently, the end of romantic relationships was limited to a farewell. No beard exchange. No fuss. A contemplative silence accompanied the silhouette of the former lover who gradually disappeared around the corner. There were no fights or boasts. It was understood that the end marked the beginning of other experiences, and they all took their course without looking back. Behaviors that have been disastrously replaced by a series of shameful attitudes.
Is it common today that the end of love and coexistence does not mean the expected cordial outcome ? some relationships continue to proliferate on social media in an infinitely irritating circus, one or both sides insist on exchanging insults, explosive and offensive indirect buttons prevent the relationship from automatically disconnecting.
- Disinterest in the relationship and showing that there is no way to rekindle the vigor of feelings is not wrong.
- The conversation about the end should be clear.
- Objective and without half-truths.
- There will be resentment if the other is not convinced that there is no way to sustain what has already collapsed.
- The freedom to make the facts clear is an attitude of mutual respect.
- Where you decide to retain the appreciation that existed before.
- But in some cases.
- This is just the trigger for the descent.
- The activation of the code of eternal enmity.
There is no dialogue that can help when the situation becomes uncontrollable, or better, when conversation bears no fruit and rudeness takes the reins beyond the limits of intimacy, in this case it is recommended not to insist or attempt to maintain any approximation. The solution is to forget!
If the other one persists in screaming, will he turn on the one? Or recommend access to degrading places, activate the “forgotten button”. Let me talk and pour the rage into the void. The healthiest shield against such behaviors is cancellation, the ultimate erasure.