Ever since we were kids, we’ve heard warnings like, “Don’t do this, will you hurt yourself?”Or: “Don’t forget the umbrella, are you going to get wet?And so many other tips. We know them so well that we can hear them even if no one mentions them. “
Time passes and one day we are adults repeating the same phrases to our children, we repeat advice and suggestions to our best friends, we desire the good of those we love, trying to prevent them from getting hurt in what we think can happen.
- And what happens when.
- After so many life experiences.
- We find ourselves in a situation we’re going to?Sure.
- And even aware of the wrong decision.
- Do we choose it?.
If in childhood we make mistakes out of naivety and adolescence out of inexperience, what will clarify us when we make mistakes in adulthood, who or what can we blame for our dubious choices?
The truth is that we must live our own stories, feel the pain of their consequences to finally understand their impending end. As far as we know the inconveniences of a road, we often choose it as inevitable. We can’t say no. And we’re often ashamed of it.
Life may be full of stories to tell and learn from them, but nothing is more meaningful than walking alone, each in its own way, watching in the face of what seems obvious to everyone.
Who has never had a relationship with someone to make sure that person is not worth it?, Who has never told a secret to someone who did not deserve that trust?, Who has never eaten or drank too much?Who’s never really been wet in the rain?
Life is to be lived. And living means as much pain as pleasure, on a road that takes place day after day, like the lighthouse of a car on a road at night. We can only see the next step, but never what will happen. We don’t have the ability, to see or know, just as the headlight of a car can’t get beyond a few meters ahead of us.
Although we use our intelligence and all our knowledge to avoid any kind of suffering, it seems that there is something bigger behind us that makes us choose certain choices, which, although they seem incorrect, are the ones that will bring us the lesson We do not know, we do not even know the need to learn them.
Making mistakes is not easy, but it is a necessity of life, of the evolution that each of us is destined to live, it hurts, but it leads us to understand the obvious from a new perspective: that of ourselves.
Need experience? Best of all:? Go ahead, understand for yourself what you need to understand, that: I told you, didn’t I?Am I warning you?
There is nothing wrong with making mistakes, we are imperfect humans, full of doubts and weaknesses, volatile one day, strong the next. Let’s forget the wrong idea of being foolproof adults: we will die failing and die trying. Endless learning, imposed from birth, accidentally enrolled in the school of life.
Break your face? It temporarily deprives us of peace, leading us to a new understanding.
The day before yesterday, I broke my face. Yesterday I felt remorse, today I accepted what I had decided to live before and realized that I needed to understand the obvious from a very different angle from the rest of the world: mine!