Stumbling is not bad, falling in love with the stone is. Anyway, fortunately, there are stones. We are human and nothing defines us and our ability to overcome difficulties and stumbles.
We face life slowly, “breathing deep,” asking for more and up to three. Even in difficult times, we can turn fear into a shield of courage.
- Encouragement to live life to the fullest.
- Catch your breath.
- Give you time and start over.
- We have the right to stop and choose new paths.
Life is a good teacher, so if we don’t learn the lesson they repeat it, that’s why we are often desperate, frustrated and nothing seems to be going well, there are no survival manuals, we learn to live when fire touches our skin.
Over time we learn to manage our lives and the paths to choose. Jorge Luis Borges wrote this beautiful text that illustrates everything we learn “Practicing life”, stumbling and getting up a thousand times.
“Over time, I learned the subtle difference between taking someone’s hand and chaining a soul. Over time, I learned that loving doesn’t mean supporting someone and what business doesn’t mean security.
Over time, I began to understand that kissing is not contracts and that gifts are not promises.
Over time, I have learned that being with someone because someone offers you a good future means that sooner or later, you will want to go back to the past. With time? We realize that getting married just because ‘time’s up? it is a clear warning that your marriage will be a failure.
Over time, I have realized that only those who are able to love you, with all their flaws, without the intention of changing anything, can offer you all the happiness you desire.
Over time, you realize that being with someone just to accompany your loneliness will make you hopefully never want to see them again.
Over time I realized that real friends are worth a lot more than any amount of money. Over time, I realized that true friends had the fingers of your hand, and if you don’t fight for them, sooner or later you’ll be surrounded by false friendships.
Over time, I have learned that words bliss in a moment of anger can make those who have been hurt cry throughout their lives. Over time I have learned that someone repents, but is forgiveness only for great souls?
Over time, I realized that if you seriously hurt a friend, friendship will probably never be the same again. Over time, you realize that even if you’re happy with your current friends, one day you’ll cry for those you’re . ‘Over time, you realize that every experience, with each person, is unique.
Over time, you realize that humiliating or despising another human being, sooner or later, will make you suffer the same humiliations or contempt, multiplied by two.
Over time, I have learned to build all my ways today, because tomorrow’s terrain is too uncertain to make plans.
Over time, I realized that rushing things or forcing them to happen would end up preventing them from going as planned.
Over time, you realize that the best thing was not the future, but the moment when you live well at the time.
In time, you’ll see that even if you’re happy with those next to you, you’ll miss those who were with you yesterday but left.
Over time I have learned to try to forgive or ask forgiveness, to say that you love, to say that you miss yourself, to say that you need it, to say that you want to be a friend . . .
But, unfortunately, “we only learned this over time. “
It is not the time that makes us understand that defeats must be faced head-on and that we must be proud of ourselves, it is suffering and stomach aches that make us grow and move forward.
With suffering we learn to resist what imprisons us, to combat our prejudices, to abandon the desire to give up, to stop complaining, to speak to us, to understand the desire, to get rid of fashions and to rest.
When you stumble and suffer, you realize that everything happens, everything changes and, as paradoxical as it may seem, the moment we start to change coincides with the moment we start accepting ourselves as we really are.