It’s a shame that changes occur when they no longer work, either because of what they say they bring or what they say to fix it. It is a real waste of energy for those who faked and did not get answers, and for those who made the change when it was no longer necessary.
All changes are welcome if they are positive, but sometimes they can only be positive if they arrive on time, some arrive years later, others miss the opportunity to remedy something by arriving milliseconds later, some heal everything immediately, others need to be. repeated frequently to make a real change.
- It is a shame that a change occurs when the person is tired of waiting and has “turned the page”.
- When feelings.
- Once incessant and impatient.
- Are cold.
- Non-existent and surrounded by an ash that will never again be part of a fire: this is just proof of their extinction.
It’s a shame that changes occur when they no longer work, especially when someone might have done something and didn’t want it, so late changes are much more painful: they’re concrete proof of what might have been, but they weren’t.
They give us the certainty of a harsh reality that one day we want to change, surrounding it with magic and mystery, when there was only rejection and disinterest, a detachment that human beings use as a protection strategy, but that eventually weakens us.
There are changes we should never expect; These are situations that have already started on the wrong side, perhaps because we have accepted the situation as it is, in the hope that we can change it, or because a good situation has become something that we no longer want.
We often idealize people: we expect reactions, changes, commitments from someone who has never thought about creating permanent bonds, no one has the right to ask the other person for a change they don’t want to make, don’t we fully understand the messages?sent by the other party?
We have no right to demand, but we must prevent the other from playing with us. The real change in this situation would begin for ourselves: self-respect and values in a relationship. We have to identify what our mistake was: maybe. were very high expectations, it is necessary to reflect and show justice when identifying the culprit.
Disappointment is a kind of break. The breaking of a soul full of hopes and expectations? . – Eric Hoffer-
In the face of great disappointment, some prefer to take the pain of wasd as long as necessary, accept it, and move on alone. Others find themselves trapped in this situation waiting for changes that do not happen, distressed by promises that do not materialize; sighing, asking, demanding without finding an answer.
Other people change course and situation, and the pain of loss doesn’t even cross your mind. The last point is written for everyone, but internally, some people refuse to use this emotional spelling rule. A rule that is first full of pain and sadness, but which, over time, produces a few blank pages, writing the past in the only way it could be?And so it was.
Frustration with the change that no longer works is the first step towards emotional freedom, it is not a pleasant path, but one can feel liberated, comforted to be aware that the other person has reacted, even if it is too late.
But what good is all this if the changes occurred when the passion was over, when the words of love or friendship resonated as something alien to our hearts, when they no longer bring enthusiasm and joy, but a cold and indifferent response; when they bring not tears of hope, but emotional numbness and coldness?
There are changes that arrive late, late in the smallest detail, late for unconditional support in difficult situations, late for excessive indifference.
He’s late for what might have been, but he can’t be; without any chance of being reborn. Is that why we have to fight for what we want, before countless?and second chance.
This should be done immediately, because the time may come when the person who was waiting for these changes no longer waits and does not consider them as something that fits into their present life, needs to change over time, especially if they want to. prevent these changes from being unnecessary.
When changes do not occur in time, they are changes that belong to a desert land where the healthy madness and passion of the past will never be reborn; they’re no longer good. These are the remaining changes at the station watching the train that passes when night falls on a lost village. Hope is bored and gone, accompanied by all the magic and innocence that have sustained this desire.