It seems that today we play not to show what we like, not to venture out for fear of rejection, to wait for the other to tell us how he feels and then we can say what we feel too. who we have by our side, we live on our toes, afraid to go further. It seems to be fashionable not to say what you feel.
We are afraid to show our soul, to undress so that they see who we really are, we were terrified to show our fears, fall and have to let someone get up, we are so afraid to cross the surface of everything around us, that we prefer to remain silent and listen behind the armor.
- How many times have you said that today?How many people do you really like? You probably like more people than you usually say.
- ” I love you.
- Not saying what we feel doesn’t protect us from anything.
- It just shuts down.
- But it doesn’t diminish our feelings.
Not saying what you’re feeling is not a good fad, because it takes us away from those we love and prevents us from showing them that we appreciate them. Saying what we feel should never be old-fashioned.
The fear of expressing ourselves, of releasing our deepest feelings, is a mechanism of defense, a way of protecting ourselves from disappointment and feelings of abandonment and, ultimately, of not feeling vulnerable. Is it normal to be difficult to say I love you?when we started a relationship, we rejoiced and would like it to last forever, in addition to thanking our loved ones for the affection. Sometimes we don’t even do it because we think they already know, but what’s wrong with saying how we feel?
What we do not say is stuck to us forming a knot that sometimes hurts, what we do not say haunts us and drags us, because it makes us prisoners of ourselves, because it takes us away from the people we love and disconnects us from our emotions.
Even if this fashion passes, those relationships where the manifestations of love that we want to give disappear and those where we think that the other knows everything without talking, appearing, inside and undressing our soul. It’s worth undressing the armor, opening us helplessly to show others what’s in us.
What do we hope to tell each other that we love him?What’s left to throw away and see what happens? A rejection is always better than an eternal doubt about what might have happened. Showing what we feel does not make us worse, weak or ignorant, quite the opposite. Saying what we feel makes us free, authentic and sincere because we show ourselves how we are, we let them see our essence.
Don’t wait till tomorrow, don’t let time pass. Don’t make it easy for anyone else. Let us express how our hearts feel and show everything in it. The fashion of not saying what you feel ends when you choose not to follow it!Don’t forget!
Say what we feel and feel what we say: the connection is bidirectional, that is, it is not cut anywhere. Let’s try to show how free we feel. He lets go of what burns, invades us and wants to get out. Let’s try to tell how we feel and see how calm takes hold of us when we overcome fear. When do you manage to be yourself?