So many times we have been told that trains only pass once in a lifetime, that sometimes we react to an opportunity when we are not yet prepared for it, and then what we get is disappointment, frustration and a bitter reminder of a path that would otherwise have been wonderful.
It seems foolish to pass trains full of hope, opportunity, progress in our lives, as if nothing. An un written law says if we do, we’re doomed.
- Fortunately.
- This is just the result of another of the many irrational beliefs in our society.
- Which only cause anxiety.
- They urge us to always be attentive to any train that passes that brings us closer to our own future.
- Even if the obstacles that this entails are greater than the tools or resources that we can count on in the short term.
Life is a road full of trains, and every day is a new station where we can decide which one to make, the decisions in which waivers are as important as the tickets we have decided to finance We believe that if we ever had this golden opportunity in our hands and would not grab it, we could not find it and it is only the result of a magical thought , illogical and surreal.
We do not live in a world where we must be between the cross and the sword, a world of decisive decisions or unique opportunities.
We live in a world where when one door closes, another five open; when you miss an opportunity, we learn and, with that learning, something better comes along, so no matter your age, you can keep betting on changes.
Few decisions are irreversible, less than we think. Think about it: if you didn’t get something today because you didn’t feel ready to realize it, because you didn’t know it was there or because it just wasn’t your time, don’t worry because the world doesn’t stop and the trains keep passing.
Forget it, it was the love of your life and you didn’t know how to see?Or ‘was it a professional opportunity you couldn’t waste?All of these are just thoughts from third parties, from third parties who are afraid of failure, fear of failure, or that everything in this life is not perfect.
Do you think there’s something like “Love or the Work of Your Life, ” but that’s not true?There are loves, people we identify with more or less, and there are jobs, some better and some worse, but they are just that. The problem is, you think your happiness depends on it.
This classification of? My life we give it ourselves and that’s why we are so devastated when it disappears, what you have to keep in mind is that we all, absolutely all lost this train, but we survived, we learned from it and we take the next one. which was full of fascinating surprises.
Some of us even thought, “I’m glad I missed that train, because what happened next was so much better. “
Trains you think are gone forever will one day return to their original stations. They may return with other passengers on board, perhaps with other things to offer you: new routes, different landscapes, but the truth is that they will return.
It is important to take this into account so as not to be discouraged, to know that life is cyclical and changing, that nothing is decisive, that things are neither white nor black: either you take the train or you lose it forever.
Only the ideas that make us suffer are ours, to believe that it is, even if it is not.
Then understand that at any time, on any corner, you can pass one of your trains, one of the many you will catch throughout your life, what is certainly up to you is to be attentive and not resign yourself.
Keep fighting for this dream, keep looking for love, keep walking anyway, even if you think you have already lost, even if there are no more opportunities, you never know when life may surprise you again, all is not lost.
It is very important that you do not give up, that you persevere, that you keep knocking on doors and that nothing stops you: neither fear nor age, nor to think that you are worth nothing or that you are worth less.
Perseverance is the mother of success, and what we don’t know is that, in fact, trains are ourselves.