Almost always the experiences we live change us, help us to restore our priorities and concepts, not to let them trampl us, to enjoy our ideas or make us feel small, in short, they give us the opportunity to give person the value it deserves.
To give each person the right position for each person in our lives is to build, solidify the foundations of self-esteem, strengthen the concept we have of ourselves and be able to discern the positive and the negative for us.
- To do this.
- We must assume that not everyone should have a voice and a vote in our lives.
- Trust and priority are two privileges that are?And “if they build”.
- So it is essential to give themselves the privilege of accepting or not that someone has weight in our daily lives.
Over time, have we become experts in? Perception?What we’re really interested in. We are talking about healthy and meaningless connections, people who enrich us and people who harm us, customs and expectations, etc.
We are obsessed with pleasing the whole world, which ends up generating the feeling of being surrounded by more than quality, this usually changes over time and either over the years or damage, we begin to prioritize those that we consider important in our lives.
It’s not about forgiving mistakes or not doing so, or always trying to be safe from disappointment or looking for weapons that protect us from rejection, abandonment, or the twists and turns we undertake during our journey.
It’s not about having eternal friends or loving life, it’s not about wanting to achieve perfection in one person, in fact it’s about reconciling our priorities by raising awareness of our affections and enriching our background of relationships.
The need to appear is evident in the consideration we put into our relationships through social networks, and also because we do not deviate from what we do not like.
In this sense, to let those people who are not doing us well go, we must first stop maintaining the idea that emotional pain is an integral part of our relationships.
The people who have value in our lives are chosen by us, as well as the priority we give them, the steps we take dangerously determine the masks we wear and the masks that others wear, so to unmask selfishness and false companionship, We must first clean our own lenses and realize the suicide that it means to pretend to be as others expect and aspire to be.
Everyone is as it is, and the range of qualities that characterize us must belong to us and not respond to the impositions, priorities and interests that others manifest to us, it is difficult to do this self-examination, but it should not scare you. .
To achieve this type of freedom it is necessary to examine one’s own emotional past and present, analyze the kind of accumulated priorities and to what (and to whom) they correspond, this is important when cleaning up the dirt that inhabits our lives.
Normally, we don’t care about that and let the pain build up, of these concessions, which we propose at the expense of our own identity, we don’t think about that and that certainly makes us feel the need to escape.
However, it is totally unnecessary, because it is as if an allergic person put all the dust from the house under the carpet, thinking that it would not affect their health and that it would not hinder something as vital as breathing. , there is no doubt that these questions and those that are negative to us end up owning our present.
It replaces the positive and it hurts. It really hurts. So when you’ve learned enough about the pain of giving inappropriate priorities, you look inside, you heal, and you take another step. One step from which you shout: Enough! I won’t give others the courage they don’t deserve.