Jealousy is sometimes the most complete expression of fear, of insecurity; sometimes love is so important that others fear losing everything; it is a lack of trust, not in the other, but in oneself, in the ability to awaken in the other feeling so intense that it does not allow him to leave.
Keep you from thinking everyone has a past. Including! Other loves, other kisses, other hugs, other projects, other dreams. We all have other stories to tell that are part of our own story, who we are today, what we want today.
- We all have things to repent of and get lost to.
- Even because of a story that ended.
- Because while it existed.
- It certainly had moments forever.
But the past is the past. It’s just memories, because it can be sick and fatal to imagine what the other person is doing, who he’s talking to, why it took him two more minutes than usual to get there, why he smiled at someone else, why he left his cell phone quiet, who you’re calling, who you’re talking to, my God!Tired! You get tired and you get tired of each other, too.
For the jealous on duty, gain the ability to trust each other. Keep in mind that if you are betrayed, if you lose the other person, the one who really loses is the other, because you, for God’s sake, are always free to live and free from someone who did not know how to value you.
Trust yourself not to lose the most beautiful thing in a relationship: trust, peace, warmth, comfort, A-MI-ZA-DE. Have you ever imagined how hard it can be to have a jealous friend?Walking on eggshells to tell something, ordinary, why can it turn into a bomb, a weapon?
And finally, jealous gentlemen, don’t demand that the other person make changes in their life, in their personality, to calm their jealous heart, they are all what they are. You can even make a change, but the other person’s real self will live there, one day it will shut down, explode and cause damage that may not be repaired.
Respect what your love is, what it is, and if what it does is not for you, it must change, let it go, because love does not force change, love is patient, does it not take into account your own interests ?, love simply exists and finds grace in everything. Love respects, because it wants to respect, not because respect is imposed. Love trusts, because it loves, it doesn’t need proof, just reciprocity. It’s simple.