We are people, all different and unique. Therefore, we have certain types of defined behaviors, a concrete personality and a very significant interior that shows who we are.
This particularity makes it very easy to question others and be judged by others. However, the truth is that anyone who does this speaks more of themselves than others.
- It is difficult to escape the ease with which we can judge others.
- The diversity of people we can find is as great as the damage we can do in talking about them without knowing them before.
- Even when we know them and do not listen to them.
The thing is, my tastes aren’t the same as yours, I certainly don’t act like you would act for me, and most likely things don’t affect me the same way you do.
That’s why a healthy relationship is based on respect and tolerance, even if it’s a strictly cordial relationship, we share life with the people we love and want it to never change for the world.
If someone has ever told you that you are special, make no mistake, because you are, because of your particular way of seeing the world and being there.
Knowing all this is knowing that judging someone is not understanding why that person is in a certain way, we don’t know what the other person went through, what it did to them, or how much it can hurt if we criticize them for no good reason.
Judging is like throwing a coin into the air and seeing what comes out of it: it could be someone else to evaluate or it could be you, and if it’s you, you certainly won’t like to be talked about lightly.
In these cases, we always say that to understand the other you have to put it on your skin, and when you judge us, no one does.
“You know my name, but not my story. You heard what I’ve done, but you haven’t experienced what I’ve been through. You know where I am, but you don’t know where I come from. You see me, smiling, but you don’t know what I’ve been through, stop judging me.
-Anonymous-
We feel misunderstood, discouraged, and sometimes self-esteem can be affected. We like people to think positively about us, worry and accept us.
No matter what failures or things people have a different point of view on, what we do know is that it makes us happy to be like this, to act like this and to live like this. love us to value this more than anything secondary.
We’ve already said that the same damage you can do can do to you too, so it’s as important to know as to be known, the key is that we know each other for our actions.
That is, if we often judge others, it is most normal to know each other for it and be judged, but it may not be so either and you may feel judged without merit.
If you currently feel judged by someone, think there’s no reason for that person to want to hurt you, don’t let yourself be affected by what a person who doesn’t try to understand you says: no one experiences experiences experiences the same way. , and we don’t feel them the same way.
This now-judging person will probably say more about himself than you do, so you have to stay strong and let yourself be advised, never judge.
And if you still feel bad, remember that when someone judges your way, you can always borrow your shoes.
“I know my own story very well, so I’m the only person who can judge me, criticize me or applaud me whenever I want.
-Anonymous-