People, regardless of religion, social status or origin, expect justice to be applied in society.
Talking about justice involves dealing with countless issues, but in this article we will focus on a plan that has nothing to do with canon law: we will talk about the psychological feeling of judging and being judged in everyday life.
“Is it much harder to judge oneself than to judge others?Antoine de Saint Exupéry?”
It could be said that some people do not judge situations in an ad hoc and isolated way, but have assumed the role of judges for small deeds in the lives of others, without anyone asking.
Why is society full of false judges? Why do they consider their value judgments to be valid for themselves and for others? How did you get to this point?
“I hate judgments that just crush and don’t transform ?? Is that Canetti?
It will be interesting to see some characteristics shared by these judges without a robe, as they exercise as executors the most damaging and toxic sentences in front of all those around them.
? They generally hate much of their lives and therefore try, as much as possible, to intoxicate the lives of others.
? They are not satisfied with what they are doing and do not handle the fact that someone is satisfied.
? They are not easy to detect because they are not cold or unpleasant, but they are extremely frustrated and frustration leads to aggression, which manifests itself in different ways.
? They are tormented by the decisions they have made, possibly imposed by others, or by unwanted circumstances, they have a relationship of psychic conflict with such events in their lives.
? They want to justify the trajectory of their lives by discrediting the lives of others. In some situations, they allude to the famous statement: “I’m not that bad, look at the person’s life. “
? They’re definitely talking about people, not ideas
? They give opinions on others and not from a global perspective that includes both the failures and successes committed by that person. They think they are based on heuristics that anchor them in reductionism, simplicity and subjectivity.
? They often have values that are not used to calm themselves or those around them, except to constantly judge others.
? They don’t have hobbies or activities that they find interesting
? They are very unre critics of what they do, they do not like to feel judged in the task of demonstrating their performance.
? They get irritated easily.
? The successes of others are due to external, unstable and punctual causes, and yours to internal causes and not to the situation, that is, your success is justified, but that of others is usually the result of luck.
“They don’t usually express opinions in the presence of many people. They don’t care as a practice, because it can bring them out.
? Their criticisms mainly reflect the desire to live what life has denied them or that they have not been able to achieve.
? They don’t mind improving. They consider that the best way to stand out is to turn off the brightness of others.
? Their judgments can range from light and private to public and dangerous.
We must ignore these people and never give them the power to damage our personal or professional reputation in front of a large number of friends, family or any other audience.
Faced with these people, ignorance is the only weapon, although we must be vigilant and prepared so that they do not exceed the limits of our intimacy and privacy.
Are there candles that light anything but your own chandelier?