How many times have you known what I was capable of, but you couldn’t complete the project you had?In many cases, you cannot feel the need to prevent it from stalling while going through a situation that makes you uncomfortable. So, even if you know everything you can do, it doesn’t make sense if you don’t feel it, if you can’t find the emotional burden that energy emanates to move on.
This can happen not only in the professional sphere, but also in the family sphere, for example, if you know that with your partner there is nothing but a friendship, but you don’t really feel it, you will maintain that relationship for a long time. several years, until the situation itself forces them both to break the relationship.
- I knew what I had to do.
- His rational mind showed him the way.
- But if he didn’t feel it.
- No long as he saw it.
- He couldn’t accept it.
- A small part of his mind.
- Hidden.
- Limited it.
The question is, why is this happening to me? Emotions are very important for making decisions based on the path, it may be that one of the reasons why, even if you know what you have to do, you can’t do it is because your emotions don’t help: fears, beliefs and insecurities can hurt you.
Even if you know that your boss does not offer you the working conditions you deserve, even if you know that you want to leave your partner because they are no longer together, it is useless if you do not feel it. situation, without taking this essential step to live the life you want.
On many occasions it seems that we are trapped, as if a destiny already written will push us to try certain experiments without being able to do anything, the big problem is to believe that it is true, because with a single decision, the course of events, with associated inertia, can rotate 180 degrees.
We can see it very well with the examples described above, why put up with this boss who doesn’t treat us well, why maintain a drifting relationship?We will have to address all these issues on more critical issues. What am I trying to avoid?
The limits of your relationships (work, family, love?) They’re necessary. Without them, each of these relationships is doomed to failure.
Chances are we have a high level of insecurity that weakens our determination to use our efforts to find another job, or a great fear of not finding another partner, fears, dependence on that sense of security that causes attachment, and the harmful behavior of staying. in our comfort zone prevent us from feeling what we know, in order to gain the necessary momentum and change our situation.
Emotions are like our engine at first. We can certainly remember at least once when we act without thinking. In those moments, we don’t even need to deal in depth with what we have to do. Our body went on to do that, took the initiative, without asking us if it could go right or wrong.
However, we tend to give a high priority to our thoughts, ignoring what we feel and ignoring what really has the strength to move, to move us forward. In addition, we tend to stifle what we feel, making a great effort not to take the dive, to show us what we are like and choose to act according to the beliefs and reference models we have in mind.
We have to learn to manage our emotions, start listening to them, understand them and let them express themselves, the balance between reason and emotion is the secret to making good decisions, even to be able to face certain fears that are just the result. beliefs installed in the mind. The mind may be wrong, but emotions are often expressed very clearly.
If you know what to do, but you can’t do it because you can’t feel it, it’s time to start trying to change everything. It is not easy to change certain patterns of behavior that are repeated over a long period of time. However, with help and a little willpower on your part, you can get wonderful results.
“We know what we are, but we don’t feel. ” – Silvia Congost-