Who has never mistaken an acquaintance for a friend?Pretty normal. Especially among young people. We believe that the person we go out to dance with, or the person with which we share the same opinion on a particular subject, or that person we sometimes talk to is our friend, we create expectations and therefore disappointment.
After a lot of blows to the head? I had the opportunity to recognize what true friendship is and discover that I have few friends, but their quality is very high. And you know how I found out? For fact, no promises or flying words. But attitudes.
- For example: although until recently the arraignment was very closed.
- Some people could see much more than that and awaken my light and humorous side.
- Until recently I did not believe in lawyers because of the many bad experiences I had with them.
- One great friend showed me that things can’t be generalized and another became my lawyer.
- One of the most honest people I’ve ever met.
Although knowing I needed it, I was afraid of therapy and afraid of the traditional format of consultations (at least those shown in the movies), so I met two fantastic professionals who showed me that therapy saves lives, it was through very good friends. I discovered the potential of my mind and the importance of understanding that it can be organized and taken where I want (and where I don’t want it too. Look out!). It was thanks to friends (great friends) that I discovered that it was possible to befriend colleagues and separate things perfectly.
And, contrary to what I imagined, my friends do not have exactly the same opinions as mine, on the contrary: almost everyone has very different opinions on politics and other issues, for example, but we have one thing in common: respect for the opinion of the other and the other. And one more point: unconditional and reciprocal love.
Friends are at your side, celebrating your victory as your eyes shine with joy for their victory. They’re the ones you can cry with without fear of being judged, because you won’t. A friend is the one you know you can count on that helps you get better every day, even after a long time without seeing you. A friend is the one who makes you happy just by arriving, because his energy is good, positive and only has to add to your life.
Do you understand the difference between acquaintances and friends? When you understand how much people’s energy can influence your life, you understand how important it is to better select who comes in and who comes out of it. They don’t absorb energy, they just increase.
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