You may miss it, feel nostalgic for everything you’ve experienced with someone you loved, want those memories to be repeated, to be moved again, or to ask yourself several questions: why is it over, could it have been otherwise?What if it were? However, nostalgia doesn’t mean you want the person who is the protagonist of this feeling to come back to your side.
Getting lost can be tricky, and sometimes it can also be accompanied by a burst of pain: much of what is found in this mental journey into the past is remembered with envy, however, the end had a reason and keeping the distance avoids the temptation to come back, because deep down, you don’t want to do that.
- We can miss the person or story we are living with.
- It changes the meaning of memory a lot.
- Sometimes we don’t want the person to come back.
- Unless it’s to repeat the story.
- And it doesn’t have to happen to the same person.
- The history and feelings we experience can be partially replicated.
- Perhaps now with another travel companion.
There are people who appear in our lives for a limited time, give us good and evil and then finish the path we have taken together, when we lose it it is good to remember that history has two sides, our path will follow and it is thanks to this that we can continue to enjoy the sweet taste of special moments.
Here the difference between missing the person or the memories becomes important, when the stories are over, and even if we want to repeat the same with the same person it will not be the same, people are maturing, growing, developing, and that is why they do not return to the same point.
Repeating with someone you already know, with whom you have a part of your past in your history or someone you’re trying to repeat moments already experienced at another time, will mean starting from a different point, and that’s why it can mean no. relive or feel the same way.
The memories we keep must be in the memory, savored from time to time, allowing us to feel again when we close our eyes, filling us with tears when we think they are no longer there, but we must feel happy because they happened. and, one way or another, they’re always with us.
We are each of our memories and that is why we have to live them like this, when you realize that you are missing it, but it will hurt again, leave it, do not repeat it or force something that no longer serves you. You may miss him, but you might not want him back.
Because that’s what’s missing, it’s full of memories, moments, adventures, stories, it’s full of life, but it’s also full of past lives, it wouldn’t be nice to stay there, we have our past, our longing, but before us, we have much more to keep filling our memories.
Let’s put an end to this, make this decision about this nostalgia, stop being full of the past and open our eyes to everything that awaits us, the people who were there will stay, inscribed in our memory and our emotions, but waiting for they to begin to be part of our path they are eager to open their arms.
To be brave is also to trust again, to continue to miss, but to risk experiences with different people, to give others the opportunity to fill the gaps that we have lost today, but above all, people who fill us and continue to contribute. with us, which does not erase our memory, but which leaves us room to create new stories.