We all make many mistakes throughout our lives: relationships with people who have not treated us well, choices that we later regret, whether at work or on a personal level, words out of place that ended up hurting someone else?
But the important thing is not only to know how to learn from each mistake, but to turn it into a pitfall, that allows us to think and fly again, we must not be overwhelmed by discouragement or negative thoughts about ourselves, it is essential to be able to see beyond and give importance to what we really have.
“Errors are portals of discovery. ? James Joyce
Learning from the mistakes we make is complicated because we always tend to do the same in similar situations, but common sense and logic tell us that if we do the same, the same thing will always happen.
Have you ever tried to do something radically different, in this way you will begin to show that you have learned from your mistakes and, with intelligence and tenacity, you will fight not to make mistakes in the same way.
There are times when mistakes come from the lack of coherence between what we dream and what we do, maybe our way of life is not what we want, but if we do nothing to change it, everything will seem like a mistake and, in fact, it’s a simple lack of coherence, so analyze your life and see if your goals match what you’re going through.
Throughout the day, do we punish ourselves with very harsh words, hurting ourselves?”I can’t,” “I can’t,” “that’s impossible for me,” etc. These are phrases that should be replaced immediately by “I will try,” I will learn if I make a mistake, “I will do my best”, “or” I will not give up. “
If someone leaves your life, it may be to make room for someone else to make you happier; If you lose a job, you can learn to appreciate yourself and find the job you prefer; If your partner has left you, you’d better have fun in solitude. You weren’t wrong; these are things that need to happen for you to mature and learn on your own.
“There is a driving force more powerful than steam, electricity, and atomic energy: willpower.
? Albert Einstein?
It is true that mistakes must be carefully analyzed so that we can understand what led us to make each mistake, but it is also true that we must not allow failure to paralyze us, life is not a straight path, but a path full of holes. , curves, mountains and all kinds of obstacles.
“A man can make mistakes several times, but he only becomes a failure when he begins to blame others for his own mistakes. “
? John Borroughs-
When we make mistakes, we tend to look for explanations in other people or in situations that have nothing to do with us, but it is important to stop for a moment, think and assume our responsibilities, it is a sign of maturity to bear the consequences of our mistakes and, at the same time, our responsibility for the consequences.
If you learn, if you don’t give up, if you speak positively, when you’re wrong you’ll smile: it’ll be a simple stumble and you can fly. You’ll fly high into your dreams, to your desires, and you won’t let a single mistake take your breath away or put you off. Keep in mind that success in life, understood in general terms, consists of many trials and many failures, which will be a lesson.
Each of us must take responsibility for what is happening in our lives, and we must also continue to learn from every stumbling block, only then can we go further and realize our dreams.
“If you want, you can fly, you just need to trust yourself. “
-Steve Jobs-