It is common for people to judge the attitudes and behaviors of those around them, so when we see someone doing something we don’t like or think badly, we realize it at the time of the mistake. This often means that we have developed a fairly critical judgment about this person and it can happen at a glance. Why is it so easy to find other people’s flaws?Can we recognize our flaws so quickly?
Of course, if we could see in ourselves all the flaws that we can find in others, it would be much easier to realize ourselves as people and control our attitudes, however, knowing each other is not an easy task, it is difficult. and, moreover, necessary for us to feel comfortable with ourselves and not make mistakes.
- Without a doubt.
- It is difficult to try to separate ourselves from our bodies as we speak or do an activity.
- So that we can see ourselves from the outside and be able to judge ourselves objectively.
- Despite the efforts there are other.
- Seemingly simpler.
- Ways to analyze our behavior.
We’re all human beings. This statement equates us to the same level and defines us as non-perfect beings and, therefore, we are wrong and wrong, so the mistakes that our fellowmen comment on are the same ones that we make. , know us to look at the people around us?
Let’s look at a case study: we meet someone we know on the street or in the office, and he and he greet us coolly. It bothers us. Normally we judge it negatively and our thoughts on this attitude are just that, so if this behavior bothered us, as we are all similar, it means that if I act like this with other people, they can be offended. Don’t we always offer you a warm welcome with a smile?We could come to the same conclusion if we feel that a person is selfish, arrogant or narcissistic.
We need to extract each of these negative attitudes and internalize them as a general rule not to follow, if we do this, in addition to discovering ourselves as human beings, we can become better people, which will lead others to feel respect and affection for ourselves, as well as greater social acceptance.
So we can say that the best mirror we can use to get to know each other is people.