Today I decided to give my heart a break and let events flow and things go as they should, maybe it’s time not to hide my emotions too much, to allow them to be born spontaneously without fear and without censorship. give me a chance not to push things and not swim against the current.
I often looked for experiences that weren’t good for me and, instead of trying to get rid of them, I wanted them to be the way I wanted them to be, so I forgot the negative effects and tried to adapt to what was wrong, and it caused me a lot of suffering.
- Let life come with the doors ajar.
- The firm feet on the ground and without chains.
- The prisons have never been good.
- Especially the invisible ones in which we lock ourselves and then forget where we keep the keys.
- Goodbye to forbidden.
- Fear.
- Pressure.
- Coldness.
- Panic and excessive control of situations.
- Let things happen.
That those who must come, those who must go
What hurts, what must hurt? leaves what needs to happen.
-Mário Benedetti-
Most of the time, when I think I have my emotions under control, I am completely wrong, interacting with them so carefully that I end up forcing situations and losing control, suppressing, hiding, denying or disguising what we feel instead of showing it. feeling doesn’t allow us to get along and get to know each other better.
I realized that in some situations I wanted to stop or speed up time, run away and then repent, deny sincerity by looking for it outside and I am aware of the missed opportunities that could have helped me to be much happier.
Forcing things always leads to a state of discomfort and dissatisfaction disguised that becomes negative energy, we pay a very high price for this, this discomfort leads to physical and mental wear and tear: blocked feelings always find a way out, even if it is by illness.
Now I realize that when we free ourselves from the desire for things to go as we want and not as they should, everything starts to work, so events begin to flow, develop and fit naturally.
I only have a handful of kisses
and an army of caresses
for no reason to invade it,
but I’ve seen whole cities
castaways for much less beautiful smiles than yours.
So let’s go on, mix again
because we’re going to keep playing
-Pablo Benavente-
You have to wait, with the help of time, not to make hasty decisions in the face of the unexpected and take advantage of situations, do not worry about what has not yet happened and let the future develop in harmony, without trying to change. Events.
The first thing to do is to take this into account, or let it grow, is not the same as not trying or not to do anything, but to be aware that there are many things that we cannot control, life changes constantly and unpredictably, bringing our plans, projects and even ourselves.
We must think that everything is temporary and even time needs our attention: the haste, obsessions and demands we have can be counterproductive. We must be patient for what needs to happen.
“Happiness is in the things you don’t plan, in the things you don’t see coming. “
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