? Do you deserve something? today it is said so easily that it has lost its meaning. To what extent can you be told that you deserve to have more than you have? Why do you deserve better? Thanks to ad campaigns and influences of all kinds, it seems that we all deserve better.
It’s easy to get caught up in the “deserve” cycle, almost as easy as getting into a state of frustration caused by not having what someone thinks they deserve, but who doesn’t know why. If everyone has, why not me? If they can, why can’t I?
- This is often encouraged by others who.
- With the intention of encouraging us.
- Show their merits and it is worse when you make a comparison with the other who has what you wanted.
When you complain about something as a personal value, you first need to know why. Why did you really win it, were you really entitled to that?
Why do you think you have to be more than the others?Who gives you the right to think that others are worth less than you?
We could go around with these reflections, asking dozens of questions and they would all come to the same destination: deserving or not deserving of something is not a right with which we were born.
It may seem that someone has more than you, who has achieved more, deserves less. This may or may not be true; it’s subjective, as we’ve already seen. What’s the use of punishing you with this idea? The thing is, you didn’t.
Does complaining about the problem bring you closer to your success? Definitely not.
Comparing yourself to those who have what you’re looking for is a great way to waste time, motivation and energy, it may not be fair, it may not be true, but that’s what happened and we have to accept it.
The merits are those that can give you the right to get what you deserve, but they are not currency exchange, the reality is more like an auction, in which the currency is not always worth the same and it is something that the buyer evaluates. And the comparison is not even complete.
Punishing yourself constantly thinking that you deserve better will only lead you down the path of pessimism and will not allow you to act in your life to get what you are looking for.
A lot of people don’t get what they think they deserve because they just didn’t know how to explain what they were looking for. Some are very proud to admit that they made a mistake, others simply don’t even know they have to answer this question.
Do you think you deserve better? First explain why you don’t have it yet, then define what you’re going to do to deserve what you want and don’t forget that before that you need to know what you’re looking for or what kind of life you want.
For your own good, do more and complain less. Get out of this justified unreality and decide what you’re going to do from now on.
Be honest with yourself and put your feet on the ground, accept that reality has little to do with fantasy, that the real world is so, imperfect, that’s why we all have a chance. And don’t blame others for your problems, frustrations or “bad luck. “There are things that can’t be changed. What you can do is change yourself.