Let’s wake up from the illusion that permeates our lives and embrace the moment when this really happens!The truth is that the vast majority of us live in our sleep, or rather, walk through states of sleep throughout our lives. focus on the lower self, the famous ego.
Others are “angry,” they sleep because they are always reacting, complaining, being victimized and dissatisfied. And some have glimpsed and are waking up, focused on the ego?Angry? They have several similarities, including the fact that they still have the role of victim.
- It is as if everything in life revolves around you and.
- In the vast majority of cases.
- In a negative way.
- They are always dissatisfied.
- Always with a speech full of complaints.
- They generally do not take responsibility for their choices and others do.
- Always the bad guys.
- Work.
- Boyfriend.
- Mother or father.
- Or both?nothing and no one is in favor of your wishes.
- Or they are to blame for you acting the way you do.
Expectations of satisfying ego desires are deep and always projected onto each other, and perhaps that’s why frustrations are always important.
Maybe they even know they’re doing it. Maybe at some point they even feel good, full, but because of mental conditioning, they repeat the behavior and choose to stay in that role.
Those who wake up may have a broader perception of their own behaviors, thoughts and attitudes to situations, perceive their fears, their repetitions, their escape valves and are not satisfied with the emptiness of a life based on the lower self. they are solely responsible for the direction their lives are taking. They are attentive to the signs of the true self, they are looking for the greatest purpose.
In this state of wakefulness, the person begins to cede control to try to control everything. To plan every detail of life, it is free to choose and embrace everything that comes, on the contrary to let things flow, a classic example among women from the point of view of ego remains:
? I’m 23 years old. At 25 I have to meet my future husband, at 27 it is essential to commit to have 1 year to plan the wedding, at 29, to get married. At 32 years old, two children, house, dog, car of the year.
Yes, we live in modern times. But still, the number of young women who still see marriage as a goal of life is endless, the difference is that today, this goal is associated with a successful career.
Many women prefer to find someone who achieves the ideal. And in this destination and this saga of ego, sometimes, even if the heart screams: DOES THE DISFRAZ AND PARTICIPATE IN TRAVEL, she is so attached to the?Planning for love?which has conditioned itself and chooses to suppress the true self and yield to the lower self.
From another perspective, the number of women extremely injured and frustrated by the non-occurrence of the “Plan” is large. And with the attachment to this illusion of purpose, symptoms, negative cycles and bitterness are generated.
So how to be open to the arrival of love?How can this relationship be healthy?
For those who wake up, listening to intuition, the heart, is no longer an option, their heart speaks so loud that they cannot pretend not to have listened, it is a fact for these people that controlling everything is an illusion and that the attempt can be frustrating. And that’s when they realize that when they don’t control peace comes in, this doesn’t force, the other comes. And life is light and full of surprises.
We cannot control how we feel about something or someone; if we feel, we feel. We can’t control how the other person feels or acts, we don’t control time. The sea. The rain The wind. What we have is not the power to control, it is the power to choose.
Whatever state of sleep we are in, we are alive and ALL have the opportunity to wake up, to seek our development and self-realization. Being alive is already the present. And being able to receive this gift in the most honest way will be our greatest reward, that’s our main choice.
The big difference between sleep states is consciousness, self-awareness. It’s getting out of the comfort zone and entering a self-learning zone, it’s about identifying the reason for doing this or toasting, it’s about observing thoughts, not judging. It’s being able to be honest with you and be honest with others about who you are.
So start with this question: who in you wants the husband, the two children, the house and the car of the year?, or who do you need to be a manager until you’re 27?Or who in you just wants to be a manager?
And when I get to these megalomaniacal projects of the future, will I feel fuller or happier?Where do these desires come from?
Regardless of your sleep state, challenge yourself to find out: why do I want/have to have it all?Why can’t I plan on doing what I want?
In the world we live in, you are your problem and also your solution
Eckhart Tolle? Quote: “When you’re traveling, it’s clear that it’s helpful to know where we’re going or at least the general direction we’re taking. However, we must not forget that the only one on our journey, is the step we are taking now. Is that all there is?
Not for nothing is the synonym present now.
Ask ten people close to you what this person did last week; at least seven out of ten will struggle to respond, because the truth is that we spend our lives worrying about what we’re going to do tomorrow or healing the wounds of the past.
Our mind cries out the rules of stress, depression and anxiety and our hearts are afraid to enter this struggle.
But the solution is to connect the mind and heart, if you know how to use your mind to your advantage and be aware of every detail, you will no longer feel that life is too short, you will be body and soul, literally, and every moment will be valid.
As Charles Chaplin couldn’t have said better
WHEN DO I REALLY LOVE MYSELF? (KNOW HOW TO LIVE?BY CHARLES CHAPLIN)
When I really loved myself, I realized that, in all circumstances, I was in the right place, at the right time, at the right time, and then I was able to relax. Do I know you have a name today? I LOVE HIMSELF.
When I really loved myself, I could see that my anguish, my emotional suffering, is just a sign that I am going against my truths. Do I know what it is today? AUTHENTICITY.
When I really loved myself, I stopped wanting my life to be different and I started to see that everything that happens contributes to my growth. Shall I call him today? Maturity.
When I really loved myself, I began to realize how offensive it was to try to force a situation or someone just to achieve what I wanted, even if it’s not the time or the person isn’t ready, including myself. what is the name LE RESPECT.
When I really loved myself, did I start to get rid of everything that wasn’t healthy?, people, tasks, everything and everything that degrades me, at first my reason called that attitude of selfishness, today I know what it’s called. SELF-LOVE.
When I really loved myself, I stopped fearing my free time and stopped doing great projects, I left the megalomaniacal projects of the future, today I do what I think is right, what I love, when I want and at my own pace. Do I know today? Simplicity.
When I really loved myself, I always wanted to be right and, with that, I made a lot fewer mistakes. Did I find out today? Humility.
When he really loved me, I stopped reliving the past and worrying about the future, now I stay in the present, where life happens, today I live day by day. Their? Fullness.
When I truly loved myself, I realized that my mind could torment me and disappoint me, but when I put it at the service of my heart, it becomes a formidable and precious ally.
That’s all? KNOW LIVE !!!?