“I’m sorry, but you’re not my happiness. No, you’re not, that’s why I’m free. I refuse to put my emotional life in your hands. If you were my happiness, your absence would be mine. “? And I’d live on the knife edge I don’t want to try to become you, don’t come with me, I don’t care.
My well-being and personal development depend essentially on me; the others contribute, but the internal process that is configured in my being will not come from outside, it will not give up, it is a matter of aesthetics. Not only do I want to improve, but I want to do it with the inspiration of the artist, as a work I’m proud of.
- How annoying it is to take responsibility for the work of others.
- What a difficult task.
- If not impossible! I’d rather breathe on my own.
- Walk without crutches and be who I am.
- I don’t want to belong to you or me.
- Let’s walk together.
- If we want.
- But let’s not be the ones who “were born for each other.
- ” please.
The psychological well-being or the attempt to be happy requires a personal commitment and not sown, it is not something that is given to us, that is bought or kept by decree: it is non-transferable, and as I am not for sale, and I hope that it is not you are, we have a chance to be free.
You do not define my existence, nor do I define yours; if that is the case we could not live without the other, fortunately you are not my happiness, I am not your owner either, the best relationship we can have is not to belong to ourselves, the one who does not have the other respects it is beauty, tenderness and detachment.
Text adapted by Walter Riso
The best relationship we can have is that of not belonging, that is, being and existing. I want to meet you, but at another emotional point, I don’t want us to be for each other, or the love of our lives, I don’t want to need you, I want to be with you.
I don’t want to love blindly, I don’t want to close my eyes, I want to open them and see two complete beings, different and non-dependent, give up their passion, live moments and collaborate in life.
“When I become a complete being, that it doesn’t need each other to survive, I will certainly find someone complete with whom to share what I have and what he has. It is, in fact, the meaning of a couple. Not salvation. , but I find. Or rather the meetings. I’ll do it with you. You with me. Me with me. You can do it. Us with the world. ?
? Jorge Bucay?
I don’t want us to change or need ourselves, I want to leave the orange halves behind. It can be an orange, a lemon or a melon. You can be anything you want, I won’t be the one asking you to change. The important thing is that we walk together.
We don’t have to go hand in hand either. Sometimes love is over, I don’t want to see myself squeeze and squeeze its juice, so if you want to sunbathe take it, if you want to peel your skin, peel it. There’s nothing to say.
So we’re not one, there’s two of us. Nor were we born for each other; It’s better not to be, I’m for me and you’re for you.
“Many people live glued to themselves, connected only to what they think and with no idea how they really feel. That’s why it’s very difficult to give yourself up to love. To love you have to dare to look inwards.
? Jorge Bucay?
We all have a love for life: ourselves, only when I love myself without restrictions, without insecurities and without complexes that I will be able to do the same with you.
If to be with you I have to give up myself is not going to work, people complain about not being loved, but in reality what happens is that they don’t know how to love.
We live in the desire to sustain ourselves and do not realize that true love is what we feel for ourselves. Therefore, I do not want us to idealize ourselves; our love will not save us, it will solve our problems and will not offer us emotional stability.
No one can love you, grow for you or smile and breathe, only you have the power to save yourself and create a healthy love, and that is the greatest happiness in the world.
Image Credits: The Meccanica of the Heart