Being a parent shouldn’t be an easy task, there are so many dilemmas, both to be done and to learn.
It’s only because I see the sacrifices of the parents, including mine, look on the woman’s side: most have the dream of being a mother, but we never really imagine the changes and difficulties, from the acceptance of body change, the beautiful nights, and the unconditional love that already appears in the discovery to generate a small piece of yours.
- The father is not far from that.
- It is a euphoria to know that he will have to take care of one more person.
- Want to always be and give the best Man asks himself this question of wanting to represent the figure of the hero for his children.
Mothers who end up moving away from the labor market to follow more closely the development of the baby, or many others who still assume all the roles: housewife, mother, friend, partner and professional. It’s not for everyone, it takes a lot of strength, but they always find a way, not to mention give all the love.
The father who gets little sleep, who learns to change a diaper, who struggles hard to succeed in his tasks.
Are we able to value so much struggle, so much love in the day to day?
Do we know that every time I call my dad or say, ‘Mom, do I need to tell you something?, the most unimaginable dreams.
Even in the face of such strong emotion, they never, ever, considered turning their backs. Parents have this habit, don’t they? Don’t abandon the children. Not that they agree with everything, but when there’s a different opinion, they’re always willing to make it look different, and maybe try to show it the best way.
Most of the time they are right, they know when this friendship is not trustworthy, so far they know when children suffer, and suffer together, they share our happiness, which for them is twice as much as mixed with the pride they feel.
The father and mother are crazy, love and wisdom overflow, they are not perfect, nor are we as children, but they correspond exactly to what we need, even in conflict, so we mature, we build our personality.
I don’t know about you, but I owe everything I have and what I am to my parents, and despite the headaches I’ve caused, I know that the satisfaction of the person I’ve become is much greater.
Hug your parents and tell them, or rather show them how important and essential they are in your life, I think they should be eternal, but since they’re not, enjoy them while you’re here.